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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gain Weight/Muscle in 10 Weeks?

NotYourAverageJoe5

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what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rather than aim for X amount of lbs in X amount of time, just try to get started. Once you start and get into the habit of eating right, lifting right, start seeing improvements in the mirror and start feeling great about yourself, you will continue lifting indefinitely.

I can't tell you how much muscle I gained or in what time span, all I know is that every week I looked and felt better than the last.
 

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I went from 180 to 215 in 12 months...obviously muscle AND fat. But maaaan do i wish i bulked a little slower, cause losing fat the right way is a b1tch!

Been on a cut now for 4 months and only @ 12% bf & 205 lbs. Can't wait to be shredded!

My mistake on my bulk was too many high glycemic carbs at alot of the wrong times.

So pretty much follow Espi's advice...and do some research...you'll learn alot!

Eat big & Lift heavy!
 

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I'd check out the Abs Diet book - or at least the Abs Diet website, which gives you an overview of what the ideas of it are. I've been with it about 2 weeks and have already made some impressive gains. It's not kooky stuff, either... just eating right and working out to maximize your time in the gym.

http://www.absdiet.com/uof/absdiet/about.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diablo said:
I'd check out the Abs Diet book - or at least the Abs Diet website, which gives you an overview of what the ideas of it are. I've been with it about 2 weeks and have already made some impressive gains. It's not kooky stuff, either... just eating right and working out to maximize your time in the gym.

http://www.absdiet.com/uof/absdiet/about.html

I'm sceptical of any diet that claims...

"Turn Fat into Muscle!"
 

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Send me a pm. If your willing to eat we can make some serious progress in 10weeks.
 

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NotYourAverageJoe5 said:
what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?
20lbs in 10 weeks is very do-able.

-Lift Strong. Choose a good training program such as Bill Starr or Mark Rippetoe's Starting Strength.
-Eat your 6 meals a day, every day, day after day.
-Drink Milk: drink lots of milk, I know people who gained 50lbs in one year by drinking more than 1 gallon a day.

good luck.
 

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Yeah, it's do-able, especially if you're a newbie to weight training. I gained about 20lbs (with a little fat gain) in my first 10 weeks of training.

PM EFFORT as he offered, he's an awesome trainer, he'll set you up right :)

Key points:

- Good training
- Sufficient protein (1.5-2g/lb of bodyweight, i.e. if you're 150lbs eat 225-300g of protein)
- Enough rest

Good advice as always from stronglifts, but I'll just say that milk doesn't agree with everyone :) (lactose intolerence is present in most of us)

cheers,
-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Yeah, it's do-able, especially if you're a newbie to weight training. I gained about 20lbs (with a little fat gain) in my first 10 weeks of training.

PM EFFORT as he offered, he's an awesome trainer, he'll set you up right :)

Key points:

- Good training
- Sufficient protein (1.5-2g/lb of bodyweight, i.e. if you're 150lbs eat 225-300g of protein)
- Enough rest

Good advice as always from stronglifts, but I'll just say that milk doesn't agree with everyone :) (lactose intolerence is present in most of us)

cheers,
-shaun
Shaun,

I don't consume milk (or any other dairy product) for your information. I totall agree with the lactose intolerence.

If one does not have food allergy problems caused by dairy products: I'd say go with milk. Best for bulking, look at babies.

Depends on the person.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah lactose intolerance blows

I break out if i consume any milk
 

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NotYourAverageJoe5 said:
what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?

IN 10 WEEKS, THE VERY BEST THAT YOU'LL BE ABLE TO GAIN IS ABOUT 5 LB OF "MUSCLE", IF YOU DO GAIN 20 LB, IT'LL BE FAT......AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE A FATTY.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
IN 10 WEEKS, THE VERY BEST THAT YOU'LL BE ABLE TO GAIN IS ABOUT 5 LB OF "MUSCLE", IF YOU DO GAIN 20 LB, IT'LL BE FAT......AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE A FATTY.
please lose the caps...and avoid over-generalizations.
 

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That's not particularly true at all. The idea that only half a pound of muscle can be gained in a week, especially in newbies, is just bull.

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
That's not particularly true at all. The idea that only half a pound of muscle can be gained in a week, especially in newbies, is just bull.

-shaun
Too many people confuse weight they gained for muscle. There are several factors to consider with the weight you gain;

-Are you weighing yourself under the same conditions everytime,ie,in the morning on an empty stomach?

-How much water have you drank surrounding the time of the weight in?

-Are you taking any creatine supplements that help you hold water,which will make you gain weight?

-Have you had your bodyfat tested to confirm that you didn't gain any fat?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt said:
Too many people confuse weight they gained for muscle. There are several factors to consider with the weight you gain;

-Are you weighing yourself under the same conditions everytime,ie,in the morning on an empty stomach?

-How much water have you drank surrounding the time of the weight in?

-Are you taking any creatine supplements that help you hold water,which will make you gain weight?

-Have you had your bodyfat tested to confirm that you didn't gain any fat?
That's why I always advise people to look at the mirror & take pictures.
 

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Jariel said:
I'm sceptical of any diet that claims...

"Turn Fat into Muscle!"

I believe rarely is that meant literally.



(#$(&@#$ fvcking goddamn smokers right outside my window smelling up the damn place right after i'm done with cardio inconsiderate fvcktards!! @#($&@)(#$&@!!)

Ahem, good morning.
 
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