"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gain Weight/Muscle in 10 Weeks?

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what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rather than aim for X amount of lbs in X amount of time, just try to get started. Once you start and get into the habit of eating right, lifting right, start seeing improvements in the mirror and start feeling great about yourself, you will continue lifting indefinitely.

I can't tell you how much muscle I gained or in what time span, all I know is that every week I looked and felt better than the last.
 

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I went from 180 to 215 in 12 months...obviously muscle AND fat. But maaaan do i wish i bulked a little slower, cause losing fat the right way is a b1tch!

Been on a cut now for 4 months and only @ 12% bf & 205 lbs. Can't wait to be shredded!

My mistake on my bulk was too many high glycemic carbs at alot of the wrong times.

So pretty much follow Espi's advice...and do some research...you'll learn alot!

Eat big & Lift heavy!
 

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I'd check out the Abs Diet book - or at least the Abs Diet website, which gives you an overview of what the ideas of it are. I've been with it about 2 weeks and have already made some impressive gains. It's not kooky stuff, either... just eating right and working out to maximize your time in the gym.

http://www.absdiet.com/uof/absdiet/about.html
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diablo said:
I'd check out the Abs Diet book - or at least the Abs Diet website, which gives you an overview of what the ideas of it are. I've been with it about 2 weeks and have already made some impressive gains. It's not kooky stuff, either... just eating right and working out to maximize your time in the gym.

http://www.absdiet.com/uof/absdiet/about.html

I'm sceptical of any diet that claims...

"Turn Fat into Muscle!"
 

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Send me a pm. If your willing to eat we can make some serious progress in 10weeks.
 

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NotYourAverageJoe5 said:
what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?
20lbs in 10 weeks is very do-able.

-Lift Strong. Choose a good training program such as Bill Starr or Mark Rippetoe's Starting Strength.
-Eat your 6 meals a day, every day, day after day.
-Drink Milk: drink lots of milk, I know people who gained 50lbs in one year by drinking more than 1 gallon a day.

good luck.
 

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Yeah, it's do-able, especially if you're a newbie to weight training. I gained about 20lbs (with a little fat gain) in my first 10 weeks of training.

PM EFFORT as he offered, he's an awesome trainer, he'll set you up right :)

Key points:

- Good training
- Sufficient protein (1.5-2g/lb of bodyweight, i.e. if you're 150lbs eat 225-300g of protein)
- Enough rest

Good advice as always from stronglifts, but I'll just say that milk doesn't agree with everyone :) (lactose intolerence is present in most of us)

cheers,
-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Yeah, it's do-able, especially if you're a newbie to weight training. I gained about 20lbs (with a little fat gain) in my first 10 weeks of training.

PM EFFORT as he offered, he's an awesome trainer, he'll set you up right :)

Key points:

- Good training
- Sufficient protein (1.5-2g/lb of bodyweight, i.e. if you're 150lbs eat 225-300g of protein)
- Enough rest

Good advice as always from stronglifts, but I'll just say that milk doesn't agree with everyone :) (lactose intolerence is present in most of us)

cheers,
-shaun
Shaun,

I don't consume milk (or any other dairy product) for your information. I totall agree with the lactose intolerence.

If one does not have food allergy problems caused by dairy products: I'd say go with milk. Best for bulking, look at babies.

Depends on the person.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah lactose intolerance blows

I break out if i consume any milk
 

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NotYourAverageJoe5 said:
what do I have to do to gain about a good amount of weight in 10 weeks?

Background:
NOW weigh 185, but WANT to weigh 205.
Know I have to use free weights in workout with max intensity for muscle growth. I know have to eat 6 meals a day.

what kind of foods should i eat?

IN 10 WEEKS, THE VERY BEST THAT YOU'LL BE ABLE TO GAIN IS ABOUT 5 LB OF "MUSCLE", IF YOU DO GAIN 20 LB, IT'LL BE FAT......AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE A FATTY.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
IN 10 WEEKS, THE VERY BEST THAT YOU'LL BE ABLE TO GAIN IS ABOUT 5 LB OF "MUSCLE", IF YOU DO GAIN 20 LB, IT'LL BE FAT......AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE A FATTY.
please lose the caps...and avoid over-generalizations.
 

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That's not particularly true at all. The idea that only half a pound of muscle can be gained in a week, especially in newbies, is just bull.

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
That's not particularly true at all. The idea that only half a pound of muscle can be gained in a week, especially in newbies, is just bull.

-shaun
Too many people confuse weight they gained for muscle. There are several factors to consider with the weight you gain;

-Are you weighing yourself under the same conditions everytime,ie,in the morning on an empty stomach?

-How much water have you drank surrounding the time of the weight in?

-Are you taking any creatine supplements that help you hold water,which will make you gain weight?

-Have you had your bodyfat tested to confirm that you didn't gain any fat?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt said:
Too many people confuse weight they gained for muscle. There are several factors to consider with the weight you gain;

-Are you weighing yourself under the same conditions everytime,ie,in the morning on an empty stomach?

-How much water have you drank surrounding the time of the weight in?

-Are you taking any creatine supplements that help you hold water,which will make you gain weight?

-Have you had your bodyfat tested to confirm that you didn't gain any fat?
That's why I always advise people to look at the mirror & take pictures.
 

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Jariel said:
I'm sceptical of any diet that claims...

"Turn Fat into Muscle!"

I believe rarely is that meant literally.



(#$(&@#$ fvcking goddamn smokers right outside my window smelling up the damn place right after i'm done with cardio inconsiderate fvcktards!! @#($&@)(#$&@!!)

Ahem, good morning.
 
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