"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gabriel's Fitness Journal.

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This is going to be my fitness journal. Will specify later. For now let me make a quick note that I have a very strong and defined upper body. But my lower body and cardio are my major weak points. Currently working on my weak points while pushing my strong point even further.

I'm 150 lbs almost benching twice my body weight, that's my bench goal. Will max out my curls for the first time in my life this week just to find out what it is.

Goals for lower body.
- Squat 300 lbs.
- Deadlift 300 lbs.
- Run a 6 minute mile. (10 mph for 6 minutes)

Need to set more incremental goals, also my process for getting these goals is fine right now. Will add more details later though!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your numbers are very impressive, i just maxed out my bench at 270 today however i am 6' 4" @ 228lbs
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Date: 6-24-10. Thursday.




Bench Press.
5 x 135.
5 x 155.
3 x 185.
3 x 205.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225. (Friend spotted me on last set :()



Incline Bench Press.
4 x 135.
4 x 155. (Friend spotted me)
4 x 135.
4 x 135.



Abdominal Crunch.
20 x 10.
20 x 20.
20 x 30.
20 x 40.
20 x 65.


Curls.
70 x 10 dumbell.
5 x 45 barbell.
50 x 15 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
20 x 20 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
12 x 25 dumbells.
10 x 35 barbell.
(This made me sore for a week!)

Very good considering that you and I are the same height and about the same weight, too. To date, my maximum flat bench is 265 pounds.
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Thanks man, how much do you weigh? My highest bench ever was 275 lbs while I weighed 150. It has gone down ever since I went on vacation. Working on getting it back up and breaking my own record!
Right now I'm at 160 pounds, normally it's a few pounds less. I agree with you, the greatest thrills come from competing with and beating yourself. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Dips.
20.
15.
20. (Hard)
11. (Real hard)

Super set dips with Dumbbell Rows.

Dumbbell Rows.
10 x 50. (Too hard, my fingers came loose, forearms were exhausted)
10 x 35. (Got hard at the end)
Are those chest or tricep dips that you're doing with the dB rows? And how much rest are you giving yourself between sets?
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Um like 1 or 2 minutes tops between sets, I'm really good at dips.

I don't know what the difference is... You mean how wide my hands are while doing dips? They're closer together so it's tricep dips. But its like 2 or 3 inches of difference lol I don't know how much that really changes.

Here's an example of tricep dips, the guy just added weight for added conditioning.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ERHop9yrY&feature=related

Here's an example of tricep dips and chest dips.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0-5bEsrSX8

The thing to remember is that tricep dips have an emphasis in the triceps and chest dips work the upper chest.
 
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