"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gabriel's Fitness Journal.

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This is going to be my fitness journal. Will specify later. For now let me make a quick note that I have a very strong and defined upper body. But my lower body and cardio are my major weak points. Currently working on my weak points while pushing my strong point even further.

I'm 150 lbs almost benching twice my body weight, that's my bench goal. Will max out my curls for the first time in my life this week just to find out what it is.

Goals for lower body.
- Squat 300 lbs.
- Deadlift 300 lbs.
- Run a 6 minute mile. (10 mph for 6 minutes)

Need to set more incremental goals, also my process for getting these goals is fine right now. Will add more details later though!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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your numbers are very impressive, i just maxed out my bench at 270 today however i am 6' 4" @ 228lbs
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Date: 6-24-10. Thursday.




Bench Press.
5 x 135.
5 x 155.
3 x 185.
3 x 205.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225. (Friend spotted me on last set :()



Incline Bench Press.
4 x 135.
4 x 155. (Friend spotted me)
4 x 135.
4 x 135.



Abdominal Crunch.
20 x 10.
20 x 20.
20 x 30.
20 x 40.
20 x 65.


Curls.
70 x 10 dumbell.
5 x 45 barbell.
50 x 15 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
20 x 20 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
12 x 25 dumbells.
10 x 35 barbell.
(This made me sore for a week!)

Very good considering that you and I are the same height and about the same weight, too. To date, my maximum flat bench is 265 pounds.
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Thanks man, how much do you weigh? My highest bench ever was 275 lbs while I weighed 150. It has gone down ever since I went on vacation. Working on getting it back up and breaking my own record!
Right now I'm at 160 pounds, normally it's a few pounds less. I agree with you, the greatest thrills come from competing with and beating yourself. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Dips.
20.
15.
20. (Hard)
11. (Real hard)

Super set dips with Dumbbell Rows.

Dumbbell Rows.
10 x 50. (Too hard, my fingers came loose, forearms were exhausted)
10 x 35. (Got hard at the end)
Are those chest or tricep dips that you're doing with the dB rows? And how much rest are you giving yourself between sets?
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Um like 1 or 2 minutes tops between sets, I'm really good at dips.

I don't know what the difference is... You mean how wide my hands are while doing dips? They're closer together so it's tricep dips. But its like 2 or 3 inches of difference lol I don't know how much that really changes.

Here's an example of tricep dips, the guy just added weight for added conditioning.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ERHop9yrY&feature=related

Here's an example of tricep dips and chest dips.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0-5bEsrSX8

The thing to remember is that tricep dips have an emphasis in the triceps and chest dips work the upper chest.
 
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