"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gabriel's Fitness Journal.

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Go Go Gabriel

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This is going to be my fitness journal. Will specify later. For now let me make a quick note that I have a very strong and defined upper body. But my lower body and cardio are my major weak points. Currently working on my weak points while pushing my strong point even further.

I'm 150 lbs almost benching twice my body weight, that's my bench goal. Will max out my curls for the first time in my life this week just to find out what it is.

Goals for lower body.
- Squat 300 lbs.
- Deadlift 300 lbs.
- Run a 6 minute mile. (10 mph for 6 minutes)

Need to set more incremental goals, also my process for getting these goals is fine right now. Will add more details later though!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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your numbers are very impressive, i just maxed out my bench at 270 today however i am 6' 4" @ 228lbs
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Date: 6-24-10. Thursday.




Bench Press.
5 x 135.
5 x 155.
3 x 185.
3 x 205.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225. (Friend spotted me on last set :()



Incline Bench Press.
4 x 135.
4 x 155. (Friend spotted me)
4 x 135.
4 x 135.



Abdominal Crunch.
20 x 10.
20 x 20.
20 x 30.
20 x 40.
20 x 65.


Curls.
70 x 10 dumbell.
5 x 45 barbell.
50 x 15 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
20 x 20 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
12 x 25 dumbells.
10 x 35 barbell.
(This made me sore for a week!)

Very good considering that you and I are the same height and about the same weight, too. To date, my maximum flat bench is 265 pounds.
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Thanks man, how much do you weigh? My highest bench ever was 275 lbs while I weighed 150. It has gone down ever since I went on vacation. Working on getting it back up and breaking my own record!
Right now I'm at 160 pounds, normally it's a few pounds less. I agree with you, the greatest thrills come from competing with and beating yourself. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being_the_Don

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Dips.
20.
15.
20. (Hard)
11. (Real hard)

Super set dips with Dumbbell Rows.

Dumbbell Rows.
10 x 50. (Too hard, my fingers came loose, forearms were exhausted)
10 x 35. (Got hard at the end)
Are those chest or tricep dips that you're doing with the dB rows? And how much rest are you giving yourself between sets?
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Um like 1 or 2 minutes tops between sets, I'm really good at dips.

I don't know what the difference is... You mean how wide my hands are while doing dips? They're closer together so it's tricep dips. But its like 2 or 3 inches of difference lol I don't know how much that really changes.

Here's an example of tricep dips, the guy just added weight for added conditioning.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ERHop9yrY&feature=related

Here's an example of tricep dips and chest dips.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0-5bEsrSX8

The thing to remember is that tricep dips have an emphasis in the triceps and chest dips work the upper chest.
 
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