"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gabriel's Fitness Journal.

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This is going to be my fitness journal. Will specify later. For now let me make a quick note that I have a very strong and defined upper body. But my lower body and cardio are my major weak points. Currently working on my weak points while pushing my strong point even further.

I'm 150 lbs almost benching twice my body weight, that's my bench goal. Will max out my curls for the first time in my life this week just to find out what it is.

Goals for lower body.
- Squat 300 lbs.
- Deadlift 300 lbs.
- Run a 6 minute mile. (10 mph for 6 minutes)

Need to set more incremental goals, also my process for getting these goals is fine right now. Will add more details later though!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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your numbers are very impressive, i just maxed out my bench at 270 today however i am 6' 4" @ 228lbs
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Date: 6-24-10. Thursday.




Bench Press.
5 x 135.
5 x 155.
3 x 185.
3 x 205.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225.
2 x 225. (Friend spotted me on last set :()



Incline Bench Press.
4 x 135.
4 x 155. (Friend spotted me)
4 x 135.
4 x 135.



Abdominal Crunch.
20 x 10.
20 x 20.
20 x 30.
20 x 40.
20 x 65.


Curls.
70 x 10 dumbell.
5 x 45 barbell.
50 x 15 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
20 x 20 dumbell.
10 x 45 barbell.
12 x 25 dumbells.
10 x 35 barbell.
(This made me sore for a week!)

Very good considering that you and I are the same height and about the same weight, too. To date, my maximum flat bench is 265 pounds.
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Thanks man, how much do you weigh? My highest bench ever was 275 lbs while I weighed 150. It has gone down ever since I went on vacation. Working on getting it back up and breaking my own record!
Right now I'm at 160 pounds, normally it's a few pounds less. I agree with you, the greatest thrills come from competing with and beating yourself. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Dips.
20.
15.
20. (Hard)
11. (Real hard)

Super set dips with Dumbbell Rows.

Dumbbell Rows.
10 x 50. (Too hard, my fingers came loose, forearms were exhausted)
10 x 35. (Got hard at the end)
Are those chest or tricep dips that you're doing with the dB rows? And how much rest are you giving yourself between sets?
 

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Go Go Gabriel said:
Um like 1 or 2 minutes tops between sets, I'm really good at dips.

I don't know what the difference is... You mean how wide my hands are while doing dips? They're closer together so it's tricep dips. But its like 2 or 3 inches of difference lol I don't know how much that really changes.

Here's an example of tricep dips, the guy just added weight for added conditioning.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ERHop9yrY&feature=related

Here's an example of tricep dips and chest dips.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0-5bEsrSX8

The thing to remember is that tricep dips have an emphasis in the triceps and chest dips work the upper chest.
 
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