"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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disfunktional

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Sorry guys think I am gonna have to bail. Being on night shifts this and next week I am asleep all day so I have no time. I'm gonna restart after a finish my night shifts and get back to normal working hours!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SdotL

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Originally posted by disfunktional
Sorry guys think I am gonna have to bail. Being on night shifts this and next week I am asleep all day so I have no time. I'm gonna restart after a finish my night shifts and get back to normal working hours!
That's sad to hear.. but aren't you free on wkends?
maybe work on the exercises on the wkends?
 

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3 days and 2 hi's :confused: U really gonna cut it close huh?

Did anyone get double digits yet? Come on fellas, I know you can do it..You just need to push harder... Stay in the field until you achieve your goals
 

disfunktional

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Originally posted by SdotL
That's sad to hear.. but aren't you free on wkends?
maybe work on the exercises on the wkends?
Asleep most of Saturday but yeah I got Sunday free, but I aint gonna get 50 'Hi's' done in that one day! I think I am better off waiting until I am back on 9-5 as I can go out every day every lunch time and there are loads of HB's round where I work :)
 

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Originally posted by disfunktional
Asleep most of Saturday but yeah I got Sunday free, but I aint gonna get 50 'Hi's' done in that one day! I think I am better off waiting until I am back on 9-5 as I can go out every day every lunch time and there are loads of HB's round where I work :)
Allright buddy good luck !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,
Gee, I have to work harder. My problem is I try to make my "hi" too special - I don´t do it unless it´s a good looking girl and we have made EC. I thought the task was 10 hi´s but just realized that it´s 50. I´m gonna have to start saying hi to everyone I meet :). The thing is that I found it even harder to say hi to a guy than a good looking girl - the guy will think I´m gay or a psycho but maybe that´s even better? To gain confidence one will have to do things without caring about what other people think, right?
Keep it up!
 

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been busy but went out to a frat party last night.

Count is at 15/50
 

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C'mon guys 15/50? Are you serious?!!!

I went to the mall for about 1 hour doing EC plus saying "hi." That night i did way over 50, i lost count.
Not only that but i got some convos in there.

I going back out for another hour. Push yourself. I went with another beginning DJ, he got 69 hi's. And he said it was a lot easier than he expected it to be.
 

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yea it is easy but i started to have conversations with the people i met. Anyways i will get the 50 by tomorrow. i hope everyone does the same.
 

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ok u guys got me.....lol

i kind did some of da work myself and survived thru week 4
but **** dat.........dat don't count!
i'm startin over

I'M IN!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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