"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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g/f thinks i will leave her for my ex

tryin 2 play

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been posting a lot of questions on here lately, but you guys are pretty helpful...

Anyway my current g/f of almost 2 months seems extremely insecure, which right now is driving me insane. One day we will be perfectly fine, and have an awesome time together. The next she will call me saying "you still like your ex and will leave me for her, i know that you don't like me at all, etc..." She sometimes says she is thinking of breaking it off because of that. However, in the next breth she tells me she is completely in love with me, wants me forever etc... After we talk about it for a while she realizes it is just her own insecurities, nothing i have ever said or showed her.

I havnt been with my ex for over a year. I havnt talked to her in months. I told my g/f i care for my ex ONLY as a friend, nothing else. One day she believes me, the next she doesn't. And i really don't care for my ex at all. I dont understand.

Anyway, this is driving me crazy, at least twice a week she brings this sh!t up. I have told her so many times what the deal is.

What can I do before I go insane?!?!?!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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djbr

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She is telling you what she wants you to do.

You can just do it and miss the insane part :)
 

ObieJuan

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Do yourself a favor...just leave her already. It's all downhill from here. Stop wasting your time and go find another chick. Oh, trying "figure things out" is just going to piss you off the more you think about it. Time to be a man and do what you gotta do!
 
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