"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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g/f thinks i will leave her for my ex

tryin 2 play

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been posting a lot of questions on here lately, but you guys are pretty helpful...

Anyway my current g/f of almost 2 months seems extremely insecure, which right now is driving me insane. One day we will be perfectly fine, and have an awesome time together. The next she will call me saying "you still like your ex and will leave me for her, i know that you don't like me at all, etc..." She sometimes says she is thinking of breaking it off because of that. However, in the next breth she tells me she is completely in love with me, wants me forever etc... After we talk about it for a while she realizes it is just her own insecurities, nothing i have ever said or showed her.

I havnt been with my ex for over a year. I havnt talked to her in months. I told my g/f i care for my ex ONLY as a friend, nothing else. One day she believes me, the next she doesn't. And i really don't care for my ex at all. I dont understand.

Anyway, this is driving me crazy, at least twice a week she brings this sh!t up. I have told her so many times what the deal is.

What can I do before I go insane?!?!?!?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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djbr

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She is telling you what she wants you to do.

You can just do it and miss the insane part :)
 

ObieJuan

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Do yourself a favor...just leave her already. It's all downhill from here. Stop wasting your time and go find another chick. Oh, trying "figure things out" is just going to piss you off the more you think about it. Time to be a man and do what you gotta do!
 
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