"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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drak_ool

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absinthe11, i hope for your own good you will be the 1 in 100 guys who actually takes the advice and move on. I wasn't putting you down, just bringing up the fact that 'most' guys who start threads about this simply can't take the advice.
And i m sure some of them even do dumb the stupid ho, only to come back running to her after 2 weeks when they realize that wit their lack of skills they can't get laid.

Like i said, for most of them (hopefully not you) it s a problem of attitude. You seem to have this problem to some extent also because if you were a truly confident DJ you wouldn't have posted about this, you would have just done what needs to be done in this case

EDIT: and check out this post about giving girls the "silent" treatment http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cordoncordon

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How about putting up a pic of her and this guy kissing so we can see just how bad this is?

What harm would it do now? She deserves it.
 

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simple. If you cant trust her dump her. Thats my rule.Even if she is trustworthy yet you still dont trust her, its not worth it to worry over a girl. dump her
 

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If she didn't hide it...I would not worry about it. It obviously didn't mean anything to her! Post the pic...we all want to see! :)
 

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I think the comments about posting the pic are priceless. You guys are all like "It can't be that big of a deal... Post the picture and let us see."

This poor soul is gonna post the picture and all of us are gonna crack up laughing because not only are they kissing, but upon further examination you can see him copping a feel on her boobie, they're in this full fledge slob session instead of just a peck, and to top it all, she's not even that cute.

This should be good.... PLEASE POST THE PIC!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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