"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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G/F posted pics of kissing guy on facebook

drak_ool

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absinthe11, i hope for your own good you will be the 1 in 100 guys who actually takes the advice and move on. I wasn't putting you down, just bringing up the fact that 'most' guys who start threads about this simply can't take the advice.
And i m sure some of them even do dumb the stupid ho, only to come back running to her after 2 weeks when they realize that wit their lack of skills they can't get laid.

Like i said, for most of them (hopefully not you) it s a problem of attitude. You seem to have this problem to some extent also because if you were a truly confident DJ you wouldn't have posted about this, you would have just done what needs to be done in this case

EDIT: and check out this post about giving girls the "silent" treatment http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cordoncordon

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How about putting up a pic of her and this guy kissing so we can see just how bad this is?

What harm would it do now? She deserves it.
 

Skel

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simple. If you cant trust her dump her. Thats my rule.Even if she is trustworthy yet you still dont trust her, its not worth it to worry over a girl. dump her
 

Viking25

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If she didn't hide it...I would not worry about it. It obviously didn't mean anything to her! Post the pic...we all want to see! :)
 

kdnash82

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I think the comments about posting the pic are priceless. You guys are all like "It can't be that big of a deal... Post the picture and let us see."

This poor soul is gonna post the picture and all of us are gonna crack up laughing because not only are they kissing, but upon further examination you can see him copping a feel on her boobie, they're in this full fledge slob session instead of just a peck, and to top it all, she's not even that cute.

This should be good.... PLEASE POST THE PIC!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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