"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G/F posted pics of kissing guy on facebook

drak_ool

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absinthe11, i hope for your own good you will be the 1 in 100 guys who actually takes the advice and move on. I wasn't putting you down, just bringing up the fact that 'most' guys who start threads about this simply can't take the advice.
And i m sure some of them even do dumb the stupid ho, only to come back running to her after 2 weeks when they realize that wit their lack of skills they can't get laid.

Like i said, for most of them (hopefully not you) it s a problem of attitude. You seem to have this problem to some extent also because if you were a truly confident DJ you wouldn't have posted about this, you would have just done what needs to be done in this case

EDIT: and check out this post about giving girls the "silent" treatment http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cordoncordon

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How about putting up a pic of her and this guy kissing so we can see just how bad this is?

What harm would it do now? She deserves it.
 

Skel

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simple. If you cant trust her dump her. Thats my rule.Even if she is trustworthy yet you still dont trust her, its not worth it to worry over a girl. dump her
 

Viking25

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If she didn't hide it...I would not worry about it. It obviously didn't mean anything to her! Post the pic...we all want to see! :)
 

kdnash82

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I think the comments about posting the pic are priceless. You guys are all like "It can't be that big of a deal... Post the picture and let us see."

This poor soul is gonna post the picture and all of us are gonna crack up laughing because not only are they kissing, but upon further examination you can see him copping a feel on her boobie, they're in this full fledge slob session instead of just a peck, and to top it all, she's not even that cute.

This should be good.... PLEASE POST THE PIC!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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