"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fwb won't use birth control pills advice

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Father Joseph

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So been with this girl for over 1,5 years. First 9 months in a exclusive relationship and then we changed it in to a "Friends with benefits"-deal. During our exclusive relationship she always used birth control pills and a few months after we went FwB. Her doctor said that she has to start taking other pills due to health risks (for example trhombosis). She tried out other pills but they led to extreme mood swings, periods for many weeks. They just did not work.

Now she has been maybe for a month without any kind of protection from her side. We have always used a condom (even when she was on pills) and like 99% of the times banging her I can last long enough to make her c*m first and then she gives me a BJ or jerks me until I c*m.

Now, I am still worried that she can get pregnant in the intercourse from precum or if I happen to bust inside her. How should I proceed in this kind of situation? I have discussed with her about this but it has not helped. And to point out we are both at the age of 19.

May God bless you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are plenty of other options.. IUD, depo provera..

If you're only using condoms, be sure to use a spermacidal lubricant with them for added protection. Most condoms no longer come with that on them, so you'll need to buy a separate tube/bottle.
 
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Okay thanks for the advice, I will try to speak about the other alternatives.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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