Had a sex date for 10pm tonight with my FWB. She texts me 30 min before our meet up telling me that she is out with the girlies and asked me how late I was going to be up. I texted her back telling her I was on my way home from Happy hour and lets just reschedule our meetup for sometime next week. Bish wasted my time, I could have set up another date with another plate. I feel like nexting her just for thinking that I was going to sit and wait for her at home. How to proceed?
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FWB just wasted my night. What is the appropriate response?
- Thread starter Mazer
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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FWBs aren't for Friday night. Or Saturday night.
You should be out finding better prospects if she is only a fwb. On a weekend evenings you should be setting up new dates or hanging out with buddies.
If you do hook up on the weekends it should be late and after you've both had your fun while out. So I have to say that she had the right idea about meeting up "late". Stay calm and don't burn the bridge.
You should be out finding better prospects if she is only a fwb. On a weekend evenings you should be setting up new dates or hanging out with buddies.
If you do hook up on the weekends it should be late and after you've both had your fun while out. So I have to say that she had the right idea about meeting up "late". Stay calm and don't burn the bridge.
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AJ84
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Yeah, she's just a FWB to you so she's not going to make you a priority and drop having fun with her girls to go over and sleep with you. She was probably herself looking for better prospects last night.
I would expect flakiness in FWB situations because as fun as that may be, most girls are looking for something more so there's little incentive for them to stick to being someone's f**k buddy when they can meet a guy who is offering more ( girls can get sex anytime remember).
So if she's the only girl you have going right now, meet more girls and don't make spending time with her a priority. Even if you just want more plates and nothing serious, it's better to have a few of those going so you can go with the flow and not expect more from any one individual girl who will likely continue to be looking for a better deal anyway.
I would expect flakiness in FWB situations because as fun as that may be, most girls are looking for something more so there's little incentive for them to stick to being someone's f**k buddy when they can meet a guy who is offering more ( girls can get sex anytime remember).
So if she's the only girl you have going right now, meet more girls and don't make spending time with her a priority. Even if you just want more plates and nothing serious, it's better to have a few of those going so you can go with the flow and not expect more from any one individual girl who will likely continue to be looking for a better deal anyway.
I made a mistake. In the beginning, I was inviting her over for just sex. She kept asking me if I was going to have food the last few times we hung out. I decided to take her out the last two times for appetizers and drinks followed by sex. I was trying to be a nice guy, by at least taking her out for some food, instead of just inviting her over for straight banging. Silly me and my AFC ways. Going forward, no food, spending no money on her, just asking her to come over for straight bang. Thanks guys.
IKO69
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What happens if you want to make an omelette and you require 3 eggs but you end up dropping one on the floor. Do you just throw your hands up in the air and say I guess I won't be having breakfast or do just get another egg from the fridge to replace the one you dropped on the floor?
If it's just a FWB, this implies it's not a significant other so go meet other girls that would be willing to date or whatever. You are single - you can do that kind of thing.
If it's just a FWB, this implies it's not a significant other so go meet other girls that would be willing to date or whatever. You are single - you can do that kind of thing.