"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FWB asking for affection and cr@p

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Been tapping an old FWB sense I dumped my gf over a month ago. Other than once with the recent gf too last weekend the fwb has been it and been good as far as sex has gone. Haven't had time to go out hunting. While my posts may not always seem like it I have a reasonably low sex drive. 2 x a month is good and the fwb has met those needs. But last night she started in about how we never cuddle and I never show her affection. Huh... Wa... What?

I'm pondering now do I show her a little extra cuddling and crap to appease her or will that be leading her down the wrong road? My road is fwb that's it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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latinnova

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Man, after sex there is absolutely nothing wrong with falling asleep with a beatiful naked woman in your arms, I mean think about it. Waking up to a beautiful work of art (the female body)is a great way to wake up, and then bang again and go to work. Now don't be bowing down to her and worshipping her, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying a little quality time enjoying each other's embrace . Not every girl has to be a wham bam thank you mam.
 

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A little is fine, but don't over do it. Still keep her at arms length. You still need to treat her as a FWB.

last night she started in about how we never cuddle and I never show her affection
Yeah, she's a woman, she's just spewing out her womanly mumbo jumbo. She doesn't know what she wants. However, what she needs is for you to keep this FWB relationship on the straight and narrow, because, at this point, the second you start acting like Mr. Lovey Dovey Boyfriend she's going to turn into a ghost.
 

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Dear Lefty,
Every port of refuge has its price,hers is a few cuddles and a little affection,pretty cheap really!...No need to mention love,nor comittment but every Woman likes a little Jam...So compliment her on her Svexual Talent,her Skin,her body,her cooking...They lap it up and it pays off...Practise on her for your next seduction challenge,well worth the effort!
 

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Thanks fellas! I'll try a little of it and see how it goes. Prolly won't see her again till next Wednesday.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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