"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FWB asking for affection and cr@p

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Been tapping an old FWB sense I dumped my gf over a month ago. Other than once with the recent gf too last weekend the fwb has been it and been good as far as sex has gone. Haven't had time to go out hunting. While my posts may not always seem like it I have a reasonably low sex drive. 2 x a month is good and the fwb has met those needs. But last night she started in about how we never cuddle and I never show her affection. Huh... Wa... What?

I'm pondering now do I show her a little extra cuddling and crap to appease her or will that be leading her down the wrong road? My road is fwb that's it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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latinnova

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Man, after sex there is absolutely nothing wrong with falling asleep with a beatiful naked woman in your arms, I mean think about it. Waking up to a beautiful work of art (the female body)is a great way to wake up, and then bang again and go to work. Now don't be bowing down to her and worshipping her, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying a little quality time enjoying each other's embrace . Not every girl has to be a wham bam thank you mam.
 

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A little is fine, but don't over do it. Still keep her at arms length. You still need to treat her as a FWB.

last night she started in about how we never cuddle and I never show her affection
Yeah, she's a woman, she's just spewing out her womanly mumbo jumbo. She doesn't know what she wants. However, what she needs is for you to keep this FWB relationship on the straight and narrow, because, at this point, the second you start acting like Mr. Lovey Dovey Boyfriend she's going to turn into a ghost.
 

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Dear Lefty,
Every port of refuge has its price,hers is a few cuddles and a little affection,pretty cheap really!...No need to mention love,nor comittment but every Woman likes a little Jam...So compliment her on her Svexual Talent,her Skin,her body,her cooking...They lap it up and it pays off...Practise on her for your next seduction challenge,well worth the effort!
 

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Thanks fellas! I'll try a little of it and see how it goes. Prolly won't see her again till next Wednesday.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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