fwb acting strange.

[Lookingtoimprove]

So I was having a discussion with a girl over text and we had been flirting back and forth. She was insisting that we see each other some time next week (after she gets back from a camping trip) and I replied that when we meet up she should bring a piece of art work with her so i could finish it (I had left an unfinished piece of artwork at her place last time I was over to visit)

Later on during the discussion she said she really wanted to see me (intimately) and I was teasing her and told her "you may have competition, there is only so much of me to go around". I set my phone down for a moment and when I came back she said that she did not like being "measured to other people" then later said "see you later i guess....". I could not talk to her further because she had left for the trip and will not get cell reception.

The odd thing here is that we are fwb so I didn't think the overtly stating that there was competition would be a big deal? Is this girl crazy, having feelings for me, or am I missing something else completely?

The sex is awesome and i'd really like to keep the whole deal going...

 

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"you may have competition, there is only so much of me to go around".

Personally I wouldn't have said this, she should assume that without a word anyway. It's not that big of a deal though. I wouldn't worry too much about her overreaction. Could be a sh!t test or she could just be an insecure weirdo. Either way just ignore it. Don't back track or talk about it with her if that's what your thinking.

 

[Lookingtoimprove]

Yes. Unfortunately I only considered that after I had already said it, I got caught up in the moment.

I did reply, but it was very brief. I just pointed out that I had already said that we would hang out and that i was only teasing her. I suppose my best move would have been to say nothing but I was completely caught off guard.

Oh well, I will learn from that.

Thanks for the reply.

 

[Purefilth]

"Wow - you really lose your sense of humor when youre tired don't you?!"

Saved me from a few negs going the wrong way.

 

[Lookingtoimprove]

Looks like I have a lot to learn. I have been reading a lot of the content on this site and my perspective is radically changing. I have been going about things in a completely ass backwards way!

I am not going to worry about this girl anymore, if she re-initiates conversation i will take it for there, but otherwise I'm done letting it sit in my head space.

Thanks for all the advice!