"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fvcking white knights, lol

Sneevox

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I had been talking to this girl named Jess for awhile (maybe HB6, meh face) and she started to want to get serious, so of course I broke it off because I don't like to break hearts too hard.

Anyways, I was just doing my thing and posting dating advice on Facebook, and one of my white knight friends messaged me and said, "Dude, take your last post off now before you hurt my best friend."

Of course, I said no. It was slightly irritating, but eh. Now I have to deal with him for the next year because we both are part of the same college and do the same activities (theater).

It's gonna be a bit annoying to deal with this all the time for the next year.

Post related white knight stories if you like
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SeymourCake

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Facebook is too public. I would keep relationships and gaming out of it.
 

VladPatton

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I agree with Seymour. A lot of people can't handle our views on women and dating that we preach here. You'll get into arguments, look like a psycho, and cause upset from friends. Been there, done that, and now I'm keeping my mouth shut unless asked. You can't help those that don't want it.
 

plate's_empty

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VladPatton said:
I agree with Seymour. A lot of people can't handle our views on women and dating that we preach here. You'll get into arguments, look like a psycho, and cause upset from friends. Been there, done that, and now I'm keeping my mouth shut unless asked. You can't help those that don't want it.
Agreed. That's why most of us are here, you can't really talk about this kind of stuff openly, or with too many other people. Even friends of mine, that are chick hounds, some of them either don't understand how they do it (naturals) or they don't have that type of "teaching" mentality where they can break it down and rationalize it and explain it. A very few do.

Plus, if you used her name, and talked about a date or whatever else you did with her, that's something I wouldn't recommend. I see girls doing that $hit, and I'll tell you they're the last people I'd go out with. I don't want them telling the FB world about our date.

Even on this site you're not supposed to use real names and/or post pictures of girls you've went on dates with. Some posters still do it. But I feel that stuff should remain private.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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