"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fvcking white knights, lol

Sneevox

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I had been talking to this girl named Jess for awhile (maybe HB6, meh face) and she started to want to get serious, so of course I broke it off because I don't like to break hearts too hard.

Anyways, I was just doing my thing and posting dating advice on Facebook, and one of my white knight friends messaged me and said, "Dude, take your last post off now before you hurt my best friend."

Of course, I said no. It was slightly irritating, but eh. Now I have to deal with him for the next year because we both are part of the same college and do the same activities (theater).

It's gonna be a bit annoying to deal with this all the time for the next year.

Post related white knight stories if you like
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SeymourCake

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Facebook is too public. I would keep relationships and gaming out of it.
 

VladPatton

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I agree with Seymour. A lot of people can't handle our views on women and dating that we preach here. You'll get into arguments, look like a psycho, and cause upset from friends. Been there, done that, and now I'm keeping my mouth shut unless asked. You can't help those that don't want it.
 

plate's_empty

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VladPatton said:
I agree with Seymour. A lot of people can't handle our views on women and dating that we preach here. You'll get into arguments, look like a psycho, and cause upset from friends. Been there, done that, and now I'm keeping my mouth shut unless asked. You can't help those that don't want it.
Agreed. That's why most of us are here, you can't really talk about this kind of stuff openly, or with too many other people. Even friends of mine, that are chick hounds, some of them either don't understand how they do it (naturals) or they don't have that type of "teaching" mentality where they can break it down and rationalize it and explain it. A very few do.

Plus, if you used her name, and talked about a date or whatever else you did with her, that's something I wouldn't recommend. I see girls doing that $hit, and I'll tell you they're the last people I'd go out with. I don't want them telling the FB world about our date.

Even on this site you're not supposed to use real names and/or post pictures of girls you've went on dates with. Some posters still do it. But I feel that stuff should remain private.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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