"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fvcking Stressed Out

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I am fvcking stressed out. I am in sales, and really starting to be great in it so now basically, I have a career and something that I love to do. So I am in my senior year of college, and majoring in Commuications, and I am damn near behind in all my classes, and the sad part is, I don’t even fvckin need a college degree for my profession. I want to get in the field more with women but I am just so fvckin stressed, I don’t know what to fvckin do. I don’t even know why I even went to college. I will have a degree, that basically, I don’t even need, just something to brag about. But what these courses are doing is tieing me up from selling more which is what I ought to be doing. I just feel bad right now, venting, I am crying, fvck it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why don't you start a journal-thread Mr. cardio? Where you can update how you feel and write down your thoughts instead of writing new, meaningless posts whenever you have something new to whine about?

This thread is pointless...

We all have ****ty days, but you can't make several posts a week whining about the same thing. Atleast keep it in one post instead of flooding the forum!

Take control of your life! Grab your balls and make some decisions!
 

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Peace is always a choice !

If you don't need something and it is doing you harm, then the best thing you can do is to get out of it.

If you are stressed out, I suggest you make time for your day to reflect and make peace with yourself. Here are some suggestions.


(1.) Take up Meditating/ Prayer - Use this time to get away from the world and do some soul searching. Use this time to get away from your external world and live from a higher consciousness and calling. As Wayne Dyer puts it - " Stress, depression and anxiety does not exist, only depressive thoughts."

(2.) Exercise- start working out. Bust your ass 2 to 3 times a week. I guarantee you will feel better about yourself.

(3.) Be an early riser - use this time to make peace with yourself and reflect. Theres nothing like enjoying the solitude of the morning.

(4.) Pain and sufferring is a part of our lives, learn to see it as a learning experience and something which you can grow from as a person.
 

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Or you could look at MSN's page headline today and picture:

"How to buy him gifts" - the guy shown with a gift bag is as gay as they look. Aaaaahhhh, just another way our society is becoming feminized and AFCs rule! Now that you're not an AFC Cardio, AFC is in! If that isn't enough to get you more depressed, i'm not sure what really would .. lol.

You're either a wolf or a sheep and there are just too dam many sheep.
 

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I know this has nothing to do with this thread but whatever happen to drbeard?was he banned?I know he was a troll but he was funny as hell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ER!C L!VE

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I wanted to quit school so many times while I was working full time and going to school full time. It's tough. Keep your nose to the grindstone and get the degree - you'll be glad you did.
 

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Have you ever held a job like what your going to school for? It's possible that you'll enjoy that too.

Finish your classes and try it out. If it doesn't work out you can go back to selling crap, no harm no foul.


He're another idea. SWITH YOUR MAJOR! Go into business management or something along those lines.
 

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Cardio knows none of it isn't worth it if you don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of - meaning no quality woman to motivate you.

Finding an attention ***** is dime a dozen, but finding a committed type that it isn't taken who wouldn't be clingy due to her insecurities is a challenge indeed.
 

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Im dropping out of college this week. Its my freshman year and my first semester. Im not after a degree so i think going to a uni is worthless.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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