"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fvcking Old Friends

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Situation - I have loads of hos in my phone that were old friends of mine that I haven't seen for ages. I'd like to shag some of them. Some of them I kissed then for whatever reason never took things further. Some of them are old hookups.

How would you go about contacting them for "no reason" :rockon: after a year or so?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamePendo

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This exactly what I'm doing once the holiday season is over, I call all the females I didn't delete their phones for one reason or another, and "ask her out" to " do something" naturally sounding, something will pop up, we hang out, and then, again, something will pop... but will pop up, and out.
 

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Just say some bulls*** like i had a few moments to chill here and i got to thinking of that great time we had together a year ago doing blah blah blah so I thought i'd call you.

It'll turn her all mushy inside and she'll even get a bit wet just hearing that you thought of her, if she digged you back then.
 

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Text everyone of them Happy newyear, and then take it from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha...I've spoke to a couple and I've agreed to see one in the next couple of weeks. My first bang of 2007 looks like an easy one. Shame it doesn't count as it'll be a repeat but never mind...
 

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I banged a girl I was friends with in HS a few months ago. She told me she was planning a trip in my area and I knew then the deal was sealed. She wasn't the best sex I've had, but it was fun for a minute.
 
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