"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fvcking Old Friends

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Situation - I have loads of hos in my phone that were old friends of mine that I haven't seen for ages. I'd like to shag some of them. Some of them I kissed then for whatever reason never took things further. Some of them are old hookups.

How would you go about contacting them for "no reason" :rockon: after a year or so?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamePendo

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This exactly what I'm doing once the holiday season is over, I call all the females I didn't delete their phones for one reason or another, and "ask her out" to " do something" naturally sounding, something will pop up, we hang out, and then, again, something will pop... but will pop up, and out.
 

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Just say some bulls*** like i had a few moments to chill here and i got to thinking of that great time we had together a year ago doing blah blah blah so I thought i'd call you.

It'll turn her all mushy inside and she'll even get a bit wet just hearing that you thought of her, if she digged you back then.
 

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Text everyone of them Happy newyear, and then take it from there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Haha...I've spoke to a couple and I've agreed to see one in the next couple of weeks. My first bang of 2007 looks like an easy one. Shame it doesn't count as it'll be a repeat but never mind...
 

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I banged a girl I was friends with in HS a few months ago. She told me she was planning a trip in my area and I knew then the deal was sealed. She wasn't the best sex I've had, but it was fun for a minute.
 
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