"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fvckin with girls!!

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Okay well, a few nights ago I was online with my ex. Earlier that day I told her I had to have a talk with her later and for the rest of the day she wouldn't stop asking me about what ( I obviously wanted her to just ekep thinkin about it lol). So anyways, I got online and I told her thanks for comin to prom with me and what not. She eventually told me she thought it was about someting else and I started to fvck with her. The only thing here is at the time of this convo I was talking with a DJ online. He literally fed me EVERY SINGLE line (while fvckin with her). Now I'm not the kind of guy tahts good at doing this kind of talking. Where/what can I read to help me with this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh,right.330 posts,still haven't learned how to talk.Anyways..

I think you should watch your DJ friends and see how they do it.Like you were talking to a DJ online,you should see what kind of replies he comes up with.Ask your friends who are good with girls as to how they remain funny/witty during a convo with a girl.It's not that hard to learn when you've got the right people around you.You're lucky you do,I didn't and still don't.

Just keep in mind that you're supposed to learn the basics of being witty,and not the exact lines your DJ friends use.
 
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no , theres a big diffrence here....I can VERY easily talk to girls. I just never took the time to learn how to FVCK with girls. THers a big diffrence there.
 
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^LoL.

I knew exactly what you meant.I didn't say that you had problems talking to girls.I know that the problem lies in being witty.

Anyways,my reply still holds full and good meaning.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not everyone is good at being witty, aka: "fvckin' with girls." You can develop it a little, but if you don't have the skills, it won't be there. Besides, why be "fed" lines if you can't use them in person?

Or, you know, listen to some comedians and listen to HOW they say something that gets a good reaction, not WHAT they say.
 
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