"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fvckin with girls!!

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Okay well, a few nights ago I was online with my ex. Earlier that day I told her I had to have a talk with her later and for the rest of the day she wouldn't stop asking me about what ( I obviously wanted her to just ekep thinkin about it lol). So anyways, I got online and I told her thanks for comin to prom with me and what not. She eventually told me she thought it was about someting else and I started to fvck with her. The only thing here is at the time of this convo I was talking with a DJ online. He literally fed me EVERY SINGLE line (while fvckin with her). Now I'm not the kind of guy tahts good at doing this kind of talking. Where/what can I read to help me with this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh,right.330 posts,still haven't learned how to talk.Anyways..

I think you should watch your DJ friends and see how they do it.Like you were talking to a DJ online,you should see what kind of replies he comes up with.Ask your friends who are good with girls as to how they remain funny/witty during a convo with a girl.It's not that hard to learn when you've got the right people around you.You're lucky you do,I didn't and still don't.

Just keep in mind that you're supposed to learn the basics of being witty,and not the exact lines your DJ friends use.
 

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no , theres a big diffrence here....I can VERY easily talk to girls. I just never took the time to learn how to FVCK with girls. THers a big diffrence there.
 

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^LoL.

I knew exactly what you meant.I didn't say that you had problems talking to girls.I know that the problem lies in being witty.

Anyways,my reply still holds full and good meaning.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not everyone is good at being witty, aka: "fvckin' with girls." You can develop it a little, but if you don't have the skills, it won't be there. Besides, why be "fed" lines if you can't use them in person?

Or, you know, listen to some comedians and listen to HOW they say something that gets a good reaction, not WHAT they say.
 
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