i got this girl that is afraid to lose me but afraid to commit to me. when we hook up she is crazy about me, i can tell she sincerelly is. so i notice this and i really like her as well so i start to pursue her, not a lot but just a little, so she starts to blow me off. then i ignore her cause i get pissed off and she comes running back to me, afraid to lose me. ive had conversations with her and she says she knows if we got involved we would be in a long term relationship and she says it scares her. she is petrified to being commited to a relationship. she has never had a boyfriend just hooked up with a lot of guys for short periods of time. what should i do? our relationship is different than the other guys she says, and thats why she is so scared casue we get along too well and i guess we are just too perfect for eachother.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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