"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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godjwood

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i got this girl that is afraid to lose me but afraid to commit to me. when we hook up she is crazy about me, i can tell she sincerelly is. so i notice this and i really like her as well so i start to pursue her, not a lot but just a little, so she starts to blow me off. then i ignore her cause i get pissed off and she comes running back to me, afraid to lose me. ive had conversations with her and she says she knows if we got involved we would be in a long term relationship and she says it scares her. she is petrified to being commited to a relationship. she has never had a boyfriend just hooked up with a lot of guys for short periods of time. what should i do? our relationship is different than the other guys she says, and thats why she is so scared casue we get along too well and i guess we are just too perfect for eachother.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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call her once a week, set up a date. hang out once a week.

in the meantime, game other women.
 

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she doesnt "date" and its hard to even get her to hang out.. we just talk on the phone and IM and occasionally ill get a call from her and shell suddenly miss me so badly cause i havent been talking to her and shell come over and well hook up
 

reyalp

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well it sounds like she's bad news, man.

game other women, keep hooking up with her if you want the poon.
 
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