"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fvck!!!

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FVCK THIS!!!
today was my violin chair placement audition and we only get one shot at it. I was so nervous that I played super fast at the beginning and fvcked everything up. I practiced like a total of 15 hours on this Sh1t. Ok i'm done venting now...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You must learn to be patient and control your emotions in situations like that. Just like meeting women. You only get one chance at times... you don't want to blow it. BUT.... There will be more auditions and ur life isnt over. Live and learn. Or, read and learn from the best so you don't go through the trouble they did.
 
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lol why do all Asians play either the violin or the piano?

Analyze your fears. What are you really afraid of?
Messing up?
Instead of being afraid of messing up, concentrate your thought on playing your best, as a positive motivation.

Be like "I'm gonna play perfectly and get that first chair!"

Nothing's stopping you but yourself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'm over it now...
i'm just afraid of messing up, cause it's very important to me and because i put so much effort into it.

but i do need to learn how to remain calm.
 
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who gives a sh#t about your audition you stupid fvck! go vent to your mom or something. the violin bro? who plays the violin?
 
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hbxdoode said:
who gives a sh#t about your audition you stupid fvck! go vent to your mom or something. the violin bro? who plays the violin?
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now you've done it.. the yakuzas are gonna rape your ass :p
I see you don't have much appriecation for music.. better keep your mouth shut.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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