"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fvck!!!

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FVCK THIS!!!
today was my violin chair placement audition and we only get one shot at it. I was so nervous that I played super fast at the beginning and fvcked everything up. I practiced like a total of 15 hours on this Sh1t. Ok i'm done venting now...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You must learn to be patient and control your emotions in situations like that. Just like meeting women. You only get one chance at times... you don't want to blow it. BUT.... There will be more auditions and ur life isnt over. Live and learn. Or, read and learn from the best so you don't go through the trouble they did.
 
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lol why do all Asians play either the violin or the piano?

Analyze your fears. What are you really afraid of?
Messing up?
Instead of being afraid of messing up, concentrate your thought on playing your best, as a positive motivation.

Be like "I'm gonna play perfectly and get that first chair!"

Nothing's stopping you but yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i'm over it now...
i'm just afraid of messing up, cause it's very important to me and because i put so much effort into it.

but i do need to learn how to remain calm.
 
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who gives a sh#t about your audition you stupid fvck! go vent to your mom or something. the violin bro? who plays the violin?
 
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hbxdoode said:
who gives a sh#t about your audition you stupid fvck! go vent to your mom or something. the violin bro? who plays the violin?
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now you've done it.. the yakuzas are gonna rape your ass :p
I see you don't have much appriecation for music.. better keep your mouth shut.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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