"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fvck you..I hate you. Smiles...Laughs

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Got a girl at work for the past few weeks at work that always talks friendly with me and we joke back and forth. This girl is about 19 years younger than me. She always after an exchange of conversation between us says "Fvck you" and smiles then will say "I hate you" and smiles or laughs..My feeling is this girl is either sh!t testing and or wants to see if I want to really fvck her. I get the feeling "I hate you" is really "I want you" She told me today she couldn't believe I don't have a girlfriend" to which I responded " I have many girlfriends, get in line". (I'm a wiseass with the hottest of these chicks..)

Now this girl is a little bit of trouble and I don't want to mess with a screwy one at work to cause problems down the line..Just wondering what people's thoughts on the comments she makes while laughing and smiling mean to you?

My guess is she wants to cook my tube steak in her lil tight puss..Any thoughts? Thanks lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You have the benefit of examining her body language, eye contact, overall mannerism, tone of voice, attitude, etc.

We on this forum cannot see ANY of this.

Anything that we say about vague situations like this (which are constantly posted on this forum.....) will be complete and utter speculation. Ask her to go out and if she says yes she's at least mildly interested.
 

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oh by the way, it amazes me that you think a simple phrase like this led you to believe that she wants to "cook your tube steak".
 

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It's been said by her to me many times...while smiling...And she also said I forgot to add her to Facebook..I told her I was awhile ago and forgot about it. So yeah. Next time she says "Fvck you" to me I'm going to say "Fvck you better" and take it from there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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21...That's why I'm hesitant..plus it's at work and this chick is a little wacky...
 

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Dude DONT DO IT! It'll fvck up your work life and casterate you. Dueces
 

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Have you seen ''Californication'' the series? The one that David Duchovny stars? Well there is a guy in that series pretty much like you, 40 years old and a 25 comes to his office, ****s her and the he founds himself divorced and out of his business! I know it's a tv series, but... Don't mess with chicks from work... Go out and find 1thousand 21 years old girls who will want you to f*ck the hell out of them...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Have you seen ''Californication'' the series? The one that David Duchovny stars? Well there is a guy in that series pretty much like you, 40 years old and a 25 comes to his office, ****s her and the he founds himself divorced and out of his business! I know it's a tv series, but... Don't mess with chicks from work... Go out and find 1thousand 21 years old girls who will want you to f*ck the hell out of them...
LISTEN TO THIS MAN...unless she is quitting soon or something, don't risk it. I banged a milf who worked with me and next thing you know she's a mess I couldn't take it, I humped an dumped and had to deal with the "Awkwardness" that came after pretty much 4-5 days a week!! !!! AHHHH
 
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