"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fvck you..I hate you. Smiles...Laughs

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Got a girl at work for the past few weeks at work that always talks friendly with me and we joke back and forth. This girl is about 19 years younger than me. She always after an exchange of conversation between us says "Fvck you" and smiles then will say "I hate you" and smiles or laughs..My feeling is this girl is either sh!t testing and or wants to see if I want to really fvck her. I get the feeling "I hate you" is really "I want you" She told me today she couldn't believe I don't have a girlfriend" to which I responded " I have many girlfriends, get in line". (I'm a wiseass with the hottest of these chicks..)

Now this girl is a little bit of trouble and I don't want to mess with a screwy one at work to cause problems down the line..Just wondering what people's thoughts on the comments she makes while laughing and smiling mean to you?

My guess is she wants to cook my tube steak in her lil tight puss..Any thoughts? Thanks lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You have the benefit of examining her body language, eye contact, overall mannerism, tone of voice, attitude, etc.

We on this forum cannot see ANY of this.

Anything that we say about vague situations like this (which are constantly posted on this forum.....) will be complete and utter speculation. Ask her to go out and if she says yes she's at least mildly interested.
 

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oh by the way, it amazes me that you think a simple phrase like this led you to believe that she wants to "cook your tube steak".
 

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It's been said by her to me many times...while smiling...And she also said I forgot to add her to Facebook..I told her I was awhile ago and forgot about it. So yeah. Next time she says "Fvck you" to me I'm going to say "Fvck you better" and take it from there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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21...That's why I'm hesitant..plus it's at work and this chick is a little wacky...
 

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Dude DONT DO IT! It'll fvck up your work life and casterate you. Dueces
 

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Have you seen ''Californication'' the series? The one that David Duchovny stars? Well there is a guy in that series pretty much like you, 40 years old and a 25 comes to his office, ****s her and the he founds himself divorced and out of his business! I know it's a tv series, but... Don't mess with chicks from work... Go out and find 1thousand 21 years old girls who will want you to f*ck the hell out of them...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Have you seen ''Californication'' the series? The one that David Duchovny stars? Well there is a guy in that series pretty much like you, 40 years old and a 25 comes to his office, ****s her and the he founds himself divorced and out of his business! I know it's a tv series, but... Don't mess with chicks from work... Go out and find 1thousand 21 years old girls who will want you to f*ck the hell out of them...
LISTEN TO THIS MAN...unless she is quitting soon or something, don't risk it. I banged a milf who worked with me and next thing you know she's a mess I couldn't take it, I humped an dumped and had to deal with the "Awkwardness" that came after pretty much 4-5 days a week!! !!! AHHHH
 
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