"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fvck! Got a BJ and now this...

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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undesputable

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i dont know if you can get yeast infections from a bj. but if youre not sure either get it checked out.
 
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Dude you can't get a yeast infection from a BJ. It is mose likely just skin that flaked off from the BJ itself. From her gums, teeth or what not gliding over it. You'll get some flaky skin. I've gotten if before. I even got a rash once around my penis head and thought I had herpes... but as it turned out it was just irritation from having sex for 2 1/2 hrs straight.

If you're worried go see a doc.
 

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This is the reason I don't fvck women before I see a note from their doctor. People are walking around and don't have a clue as to what they've contracted!!!

helloall: you do realize you could have easily contracted herpes from this chick? And I'm not refering to your "flakey skin". Many STD's show no initial symptoms at all, and you can go through a handful of partners b4 you even notice something... if you ever do at all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ya lets just scare him to death.

I think if a chick had herpes in her mouth she'd notice.

Plus herpes doesn't survive to well in the mouth, other than type one, which isn't the std form.

If it hurts to pee, you might have the yeast infection. give it a couple weeks than you might need to go to the doctor if it doesn't heal.
 

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Its gone now guys.

I think what Lost Cause said applies to my situation, ill give it a few weeks anyway and see if anything happens.

Thanks.

Oh and ive learned my lesson. No way am i gonna do this **** with some random chick again!
 

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A girl blamed me for giving her gonnareia or something... how do you know if you have that or can you give it someone without having it yourself?
 

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You can give her gonorhea easily. But you can't give somebody a disease you don't have. Come on now... lets not be that naive. If she blames you then get tested by a doctor. It's cured easily.

Oh and if it hurts to pee... you don't have a yeast infection. Girls get those, guys do not. You could have early signs of Herpes II or Clamydia or Gonnorhea. It's gotta be painful though. You'll know it when you feel it.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Ya lets just scare him to death.
No, let's calm him down, and wait for his d1ck to fall off.

I think if a chick had herpes in her mouth she'd notice.
Doesn't mean she'd tell him :rolleyes:

Plus herpes doesn't survive to well in the mouth, other than type one, which isn't the std form.
LOL It isn't an std form, cause it's worse. You can get type one from sharing a towel, shaking hands, kissing...

If it hurts to pee, you might have the yeast infection.
It will hurt only in a week or so.
give it a couple weeks than you might need to go to the doctor if it doesn't heal. [/B]
Yeah, wait for your d1ck to fall off first, then go to a doc. Why not go now?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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UPDATE

Its two weeks after the Bj and now i got little red spots on my: chest, under armpit, on stomach, on hips, upper leg and of course my penis.

Am going to the doc next week.

The spots are kinda itchy. Think it might be herpes.

Anyone else have any ideas?

Guys, wear a condom even if getting a BJ! Take it from me.
 

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Dude I doubt it's herpes. I've never heard of herpes spreading to someone's chest and armpits.
 

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Chicken Pox bozo. Nah I dunno but dude don't wait, go see the doctor now before it gets worse or some shyt.
 

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Hi guys,

Thanks for the replies.

Ive been researching more - is there a possibility it could be scabies?

Ive read that can be transfered by sexual contact and there are a lot of small red itchy bumps on the body of the carrier.

PS - Im going to the doc wednesday or thursday.
 

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These are some of the dumbest ****kin responses I have ever seen.

Actually, you are exhibiting early signs of scurvy this has not been seen recently but your description fits it perfectly.
The only other possibilty is a return in your area of potato famine.

see a doctor quick
good luck!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"What's the matter honey?? Little extra cheese on the taco?" :D


Hey, go to doctor asap if you think you have a STD!!
We can't help you here you know...
 

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damn bro that sucks. If a chick ever gives me something ill straight out murder the slut.
 
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