For those of you that arent aware, Tinder is a hookup app. Huge selection of honeys that are 7+/10...tons of college sloots. Anyway, im on there and browsing through when, BOOM my buddys GF profile pops up..saying active as of yesterday. So I screenshot. My plan is showing him and let him make his own decision from there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fuuuark bros...found friends GF on Tinder
- Thread starter Julian
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I got a feeling this app is a game changer, it is bringing into the open what has been happening behind closed doors since the dawn of civilisation. Stuff like this will blow open even wider the great divide between AFCs and DJs. Not because it's based on looks, but because HBs now need AFCs even less than they ever did. They can now get their validation from the guys that they find attractive without even leaving the house.
Can anyone compete with this? I'm not sure. Our girlfriends and FBs will be so over-validated that even the slightest ounce of insecurity will be punished swiftly and remorselessly.
I have no problems with any of my girls dating other guys, especially if those other guys are giving them the validation, emotional support and gifts that I am withholding. I have my own plates anyway. If I can get favours or leverage out of it then even better.
Perhaps a complete lack of caring is the only response.
Can anyone compete with this? I'm not sure. Our girlfriends and FBs will be so over-validated that even the slightest ounce of insecurity will be punished swiftly and remorselessly.
I have no problems with any of my girls dating other guys, especially if those other guys are giving them the validation, emotional support and gifts that I am withholding. I have my own plates anyway. If I can get favours or leverage out of it then even better.
Perhaps a complete lack of caring is the only response.
gravityeyelids
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You're overreacting. Yes tinder is known as a "hookup" app. But not amongst girls. Girls see it as a game, and just laugh and tell each other the ridiculous things that guys send them. I know girls on there that have boyfriends. And if asked about it, they would probably simply say "oh i just use it for entertainment, i dont actually talk to guys on there. "
I'm not naive, i know girls can be dirty. But they are usually smart about cheating, and wouldnt do something so obvious as to put a profile intending to hookup on a public app where guys close to a geographic area are supposed to flip through and judge girls based on pictures if they were trying to sleep with those guys. Not to mention most of the guys on there are pathetic betas...not cheating with material.
If she wanted to fvck around on your friend, she will do so regardless of some stupid app that every college chick in the country uses, single or not. And she'd probably get away with it too.
Don't get your friend worked up about something that's nothing.
I'm not naive, i know girls can be dirty. But they are usually smart about cheating, and wouldnt do something so obvious as to put a profile intending to hookup on a public app where guys close to a geographic area are supposed to flip through and judge girls based on pictures if they were trying to sleep with those guys. Not to mention most of the guys on there are pathetic betas...not cheating with material.
If she wanted to fvck around on your friend, she will do so regardless of some stupid app that every college chick in the country uses, single or not. And she'd probably get away with it too.
Don't get your friend worked up about something that's nothing.
Adam, it's becoming evident over a large sampling of your posts that you have some serious rancor towards women. That stuff is poison - not just for your relationships but for you as well. I hope you one day decide to resolve some of those issues. You don't have to put them up on a pedestal, but ridding yourself of anger (towards anyone or anything, really) is going to make you a happier person. And who wouldn't want that?adam225 said:
(Apologies to the OP for this brief detour)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Its not your place to report what his gf is doing. Mind ya Bidness. As the old saying goes "Snitches get Stitches"
However, I'm with Turwal, how do we combat this validation on steroids overload. At the rate this society is going, Marriages and LTRs will become some old folklore that's told over campfires along with ghost stories.
However, I'm with Turwal, how do we combat this validation on steroids overload. At the rate this society is going, Marriages and LTRs will become some old folklore that's told over campfires along with ghost stories.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
wtf? his friend's 2 timing girlfriend has no affiliation to him whatsoever and therefor, her interests should not be considered over his friendsSmooveMooves said:
tell him OP, let him know he was about to make a housewife out of a hoe