I met this girl from facebook about a month ago. We went to the movies and that went good. The second date, we went bowling and that also went smoothly. On the third date, we went to the movies again, and she gave me good signs touching my leg, so I finally escalated and made out with her. I'm 23 and shes 21. I normally meet a lot of women online and wind up messing around with them. Its pretty easy for me and i've done this a lot. For some reason though I dont really wanna go too far with her too soon because I think highly of her. Shes very pretty, going to be a doctor, fun to chill with, a Christian which i really like, and gives me good signs of interest. I think she really got potential. Last night for our 4th date, I took her to the Cotto vs Mosley fight, and she even paid for the food and train tickets. SHe really seems like a quality woman. Can you guys give me advice on how to proceed from here. I dont really even want to sleep with her yet or get too sexual, although i know that these things might bring ppl closer. I've probably gotten head from over 25 women but I dont even think about those kind of things with her. What do you guys think I need to do .
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Future GF
- Thread starter Dman101
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
Don Juan
Do you thikn of her in a sexual way?
At least let her know you are sexual..
I think you should go for it..but i see what your saying you see her more as a relationship then hookup?
At least let her know you are sexual..
I think you should go for it..but i see what your saying you see her more as a relationship then hookup?
I've been holding her tight and rubbing her body like on the train and in the movies. This is a unique situation for me because usually I always just go for some head and try to get physical real quick, but I dont think of her like that at all, I really like her she seems to have wifey potential, so I feel kind of at a lost. Any advice would be great
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
I'm not trying to burst your bubble but you to take some things into consideration. First off, you've got oneitis which is never a good thing. Second, you could be friend zoned real quick if you don't escalate a little more, you know make her feel sexy and sh!t. Third, you can't get too seriously with a future med student because they may have to move to a far school for at least 4 years with a 3 year commitment in residency. I can't tell you what to do but you have to be realistic read between the lines sometimes.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Dude, she obviously digs you and wants your cack...if you don't get sexual with her now she'll totally think you're an AFC. I love my gf, but when we're havin sex, she's basically nothing but my sex object, and I relish in having my way with her. I love phucking her like a hor, and you know what, she loves it. She says she loves being wanted that much for sex...and I think most women really like this as well.
You've been around, so you know that women are VERY sexual by nature...its just up to you to help her unleash her sexuality and become less uninhibited (if she even is uninhibited!)...Get into her throat and snatch man! Good luck!
You've been around, so you know that women are VERY sexual by nature...its just up to you to help her unleash her sexuality and become less uninhibited (if she even is uninhibited!)...Get into her throat and snatch man! Good luck!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeaa you're right.. HOw should I play this tho because I've been kinda laying back. Texting her maybe once every 3 days seeing her like once every week or week and a half. I feel like its inevitable that shes gonna be my gf, but then in the back of my head i keep thinkin i shouldnt be so sure and like wat if she lessens her interest. I just wanna really keep this interest level high. I think initially for me its the fact that I'm a tall good looking guy that gets me in there, but i feel like deep inside somethings not right because naturally im really quiet like at work but when I get around females that like me I try to act like im confident and im some great guy. Thanks all for the advice