I met this girl from facebook about a month ago. We went to the movies and that went good. The second date, we went bowling and that also went smoothly. On the third date, we went to the movies again, and she gave me good signs touching my leg, so I finally escalated and made out with her. I'm 23 and shes 21. I normally meet a lot of women online and wind up messing around with them. Its pretty easy for me and i've done this a lot. For some reason though I dont really wanna go too far with her too soon because I think highly of her. Shes very pretty, going to be a doctor, fun to chill with, a Christian which i really like, and gives me good signs of interest. I think she really got potential. Last night for our 4th date, I took her to the Cotto vs Mosley fight, and she even paid for the food and train tickets. SHe really seems like a quality woman. Can you guys give me advice on how to proceed from here. I dont really even want to sleep with her yet or get too sexual, although i know that these things might bring ppl closer. I've probably gotten head from over 25 women but I dont even think about those kind of things with her. What do you guys think I need to do .
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Future GF
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
Don Juan
Do you thikn of her in a sexual way?
At least let her know you are sexual..
I think you should go for it..but i see what your saying you see her more as a relationship then hookup?
At least let her know you are sexual..
I think you should go for it..but i see what your saying you see her more as a relationship then hookup?
I've been holding her tight and rubbing her body like on the train and in the movies. This is a unique situation for me because usually I always just go for some head and try to get physical real quick, but I dont think of her like that at all, I really like her she seems to have wifey potential, so I feel kind of at a lost. Any advice would be great
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
I'm not trying to burst your bubble but you to take some things into consideration. First off, you've got oneitis which is never a good thing. Second, you could be friend zoned real quick if you don't escalate a little more, you know make her feel sexy and sh!t. Third, you can't get too seriously with a future med student because they may have to move to a far school for at least 4 years with a 3 year commitment in residency. I can't tell you what to do but you have to be realistic read between the lines sometimes.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Dude, she obviously digs you and wants your cack...if you don't get sexual with her now she'll totally think you're an AFC. I love my gf, but when we're havin sex, she's basically nothing but my sex object, and I relish in having my way with her. I love phucking her like a hor, and you know what, she loves it. She says she loves being wanted that much for sex...and I think most women really like this as well.
You've been around, so you know that women are VERY sexual by nature...its just up to you to help her unleash her sexuality and become less uninhibited (if she even is uninhibited!)...Get into her throat and snatch man! Good luck!
You've been around, so you know that women are VERY sexual by nature...its just up to you to help her unleash her sexuality and become less uninhibited (if she even is uninhibited!)...Get into her throat and snatch man! Good luck!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeaa you're right.. HOw should I play this tho because I've been kinda laying back. Texting her maybe once every 3 days seeing her like once every week or week and a half. I feel like its inevitable that shes gonna be my gf, but then in the back of my head i keep thinkin i shouldnt be so sure and like wat if she lessens her interest. I just wanna really keep this interest level high. I think initially for me its the fact that I'm a tall good looking guy that gets me in there, but i feel like deep inside somethings not right because naturally im really quiet like at work but when I get around females that like me I try to act like im confident and im some great guy. Thanks all for the advice