"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FUR: LJBF should be ILLEGAL!

lebRambo

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hey guys.

okay, so HBGreatAss comes over last night. We're watching movies, joking around, i climb onto her back (when she's lying on her stomach on my bed) and say "so how does it feel for someone who always likes to be in control to be so vulnerable?" and we wrestle and sh*t. anyway, i go in for the kiss at a great time and get the whole "I've already put you in the friends category..".

I have seen this girl a total of twice before last night. She said "you were really fun to hang out with. I only sleep with guys i don't like."

haha! this girl is nuts. she's slept with 9 guys and she has NEVER had a LTR. she seems to be a huge party girl.

i personally think I dodged a bullet. oh well, onto the next one! Hey look....a hot girl over there......:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fender85

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Well judging by the fact that you're 18, I can imagine she's about the same age. 9 guys?! She did you a favor by giving you the LJBF. And props on the attitude . . . Only 3 billion more of them left, right? ;)
 

lebRambo

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haha, for sure. dwelling on this sorta **** could cost you a lot more missed opportunities.
 

DonJuanMonk

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I agree with fender. When you get dumped or rejected, try not to see it as lost opportunity to be with this girl but a chance to meet someone more compatible and accessible.
 
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