"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FUR: LJBF should be ILLEGAL!

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lebRambo

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hey guys.

okay, so HBGreatAss comes over last night. We're watching movies, joking around, i climb onto her back (when she's lying on her stomach on my bed) and say "so how does it feel for someone who always likes to be in control to be so vulnerable?" and we wrestle and sh*t. anyway, i go in for the kiss at a great time and get the whole "I've already put you in the friends category..".

I have seen this girl a total of twice before last night. She said "you were really fun to hang out with. I only sleep with guys i don't like."

haha! this girl is nuts. she's slept with 9 guys and she has NEVER had a LTR. she seems to be a huge party girl.

i personally think I dodged a bullet. oh well, onto the next one! Hey look....a hot girl over there......:D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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fender85

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Well judging by the fact that you're 18, I can imagine she's about the same age. 9 guys?! She did you a favor by giving you the LJBF. And props on the attitude . . . Only 3 billion more of them left, right? ;)
 
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lebRambo

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haha, for sure. dwelling on this sorta **** could cost you a lot more missed opportunities.
 
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I agree with fender. When you get dumped or rejected, try not to see it as lost opportunity to be with this girl but a chance to meet someone more compatible and accessible.
 
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