"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Funny incident today

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You may not find this funny, oh well, I did, I laughed about it all period.

We have a blind student teacher (for some reason I think he will be more interesting than the story I have to tell) Anyways, he asked me to pass out some papers. Theres a new girl in the class, lets call her Anna.

I got to her paper, her last name is TOSTADA. What the fukk?

On her paper, it read Tostada Anna, instead of Anna Tostada. So when I get to her paper, I say "Who the **** is Tostada?" Then a second later I read her first name and laughed my ass off. I said "oh ****, my bad hahahaha" I looked up at her and shes giving me this nasty a$$ look. I walk over to her and hand her her paper, she snatches it all rudely, I dont care, that made my day. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making fun of the new girl because of her name should not make your day. Maybe she is on some teenie bopper forum posting a thread right now about how some horribly mean guy made fun of her at school, and all of the other girls are supporting her by agreeing that you are evil.

All of us have our moments, but you should see that you messed up here. In the future, do your best to never make fun of someone for an immutable trait. That means something that they cannot change, at least not right away, like a name or a birthmark. That's poor humor and in poor taste. Once again, we all have our moments, especially at sixteen, so don't feel bad, just don't do stuff like that again.

Is she decent looking? I guarantee you could have your way with her if you played your cards right. The first step would be to do something to show her you are not the world's biggest douche. If you were to show a side of yourself to her that was the opposite of a guy making fun of her name, then that would rock her world and she would like you a lot. This is what push-pull is about, keeping a girl guessing. This weekend she will hate you, but next week she can be in love with you if that is what you want.
 
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I understand, you make me think twice about alot of things, but what happened today was kind of a natural reaction, I didnt think about what was coming out, it just sort of happened. I didnt really make fun of her, like I said, it just happened. She is not that bad looking either, and now you made me feel like an assh0le...lol. I guess I ill show her my good side another day.
 
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