"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Funny incident today

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You may not find this funny, oh well, I did, I laughed about it all period.

We have a blind student teacher (for some reason I think he will be more interesting than the story I have to tell) Anyways, he asked me to pass out some papers. Theres a new girl in the class, lets call her Anna.

I got to her paper, her last name is TOSTADA. What the fukk?

On her paper, it read Tostada Anna, instead of Anna Tostada. So when I get to her paper, I say "Who the **** is Tostada?" Then a second later I read her first name and laughed my ass off. I said "oh ****, my bad hahahaha" I looked up at her and shes giving me this nasty a$$ look. I walk over to her and hand her her paper, she snatches it all rudely, I dont care, that made my day. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making fun of the new girl because of her name should not make your day. Maybe she is on some teenie bopper forum posting a thread right now about how some horribly mean guy made fun of her at school, and all of the other girls are supporting her by agreeing that you are evil.

All of us have our moments, but you should see that you messed up here. In the future, do your best to never make fun of someone for an immutable trait. That means something that they cannot change, at least not right away, like a name or a birthmark. That's poor humor and in poor taste. Once again, we all have our moments, especially at sixteen, so don't feel bad, just don't do stuff like that again.

Is she decent looking? I guarantee you could have your way with her if you played your cards right. The first step would be to do something to show her you are not the world's biggest douche. If you were to show a side of yourself to her that was the opposite of a guy making fun of her name, then that would rock her world and she would like you a lot. This is what push-pull is about, keeping a girl guessing. This weekend she will hate you, but next week she can be in love with you if that is what you want.
 
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I understand, you make me think twice about alot of things, but what happened today was kind of a natural reaction, I didnt think about what was coming out, it just sort of happened. I didnt really make fun of her, like I said, it just happened. She is not that bad looking either, and now you made me feel like an assh0le...lol. I guess I ill show her my good side another day.
 
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