"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fun things to do with a girl

Incremental

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Specifically, I'm looking for things that get the blood moving, but as fingerpainting shows the fun factor is foremost. Here's what I have so far, I would like some more suggestions. Oh, and the lighter on the wallet the better. Think $10/wk allowance :whistle:

Mini Golf - It's fun! Lots of chances to goof around.

Tag - Can be played anywhere. It encourages touching, and it makes me happy to run around.

Time capsule - Bring a shovel and a container of some sort, then bury things and write a note talking about them. (lots of fun if personal things (panties) are buried with a story explaining them.

Basketball - It's active, sweaty, and I'm bad at it (so there will be plenty of laughing)

Fingerpainting! - I haven't done this in forever and it was so much fun! Some trash clothes, some fingerpaints, and a drop cloth or something for easy cleanup.

Jello Wrestling - Not many chances to do this. You need a kiddy pool and a whole crapton of jello, but it's really fun and sexy.

Build a clubhouse - Not to use, just to build. I remember a lot of attempts to do this as a kid. We just used whatever we could find, and so should you. Don't buy nails or wood, look for shopping carts and bring some sheets and clothing clips. After it's built, you should practice smooching in it (y'know, to make sure it works.).

Spar - I havn't had anyone to spar with in forever. It's hard to find a proper artist to spar with though.

Photo Booth - A classic Mall photo booth. Goofy pictures.

Clothes shopping - a strange thing for a guy, but I don't mind playing dress up every now and again. I over exaggerate things and play it up.

Rock Climbing - Either a rock gym or boulder climbing. Freefall is fun!

Play dirty cops - Like cops and robbers, only you're both cops, and one of you's dirty. Try to arrest each other. Whoever gets arrested is the dirty one.

Biking - Go ride bikes. Look for new places, get lost. (Going for a drive is a good substitute, but it doesn't get the blood moving.)

Race - Just a straight out sprint. Running is fun, and it gets you tired. Which is also fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hero

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Hiking
throwing frisbee, softball, football.
geocaching, treasure hunt, ultimate frisbee,
rollerblading, skating, ice skating
visit museums
 

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Laser tag is hella fun.
 

Mental

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Incremental said:
Specifically, I'm looking for things that get the blood moving, but as fingerpainting shows the fun factor is foremost. Here's what I have so far, I would like some more suggestions. Oh, and the lighter on the wallet the better. Think $10/wk allowance :whistle:
Incremental said:
Spar - I haven't had anyone to spar with in forever. It's hard to find a proper artist to spar with though.
Actually, balloon sword fights are really fun. Especially if they don't know you can make balloon sculptures. Yeah, it's a little childish maybe, but it's good clean fun, and you get a little excersize and play death scenes. And the kissing to reverse the cheesy balloon sword death is always fun.
 
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