"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fun things to do with a girl

Incremental

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Specifically, I'm looking for things that get the blood moving, but as fingerpainting shows the fun factor is foremost. Here's what I have so far, I would like some more suggestions. Oh, and the lighter on the wallet the better. Think $10/wk allowance :whistle:

Mini Golf - It's fun! Lots of chances to goof around.

Tag - Can be played anywhere. It encourages touching, and it makes me happy to run around.

Time capsule - Bring a shovel and a container of some sort, then bury things and write a note talking about them. (lots of fun if personal things (panties) are buried with a story explaining them.

Basketball - It's active, sweaty, and I'm bad at it (so there will be plenty of laughing)

Fingerpainting! - I haven't done this in forever and it was so much fun! Some trash clothes, some fingerpaints, and a drop cloth or something for easy cleanup.

Jello Wrestling - Not many chances to do this. You need a kiddy pool and a whole crapton of jello, but it's really fun and sexy.

Build a clubhouse - Not to use, just to build. I remember a lot of attempts to do this as a kid. We just used whatever we could find, and so should you. Don't buy nails or wood, look for shopping carts and bring some sheets and clothing clips. After it's built, you should practice smooching in it (y'know, to make sure it works.).

Spar - I havn't had anyone to spar with in forever. It's hard to find a proper artist to spar with though.

Photo Booth - A classic Mall photo booth. Goofy pictures.

Clothes shopping - a strange thing for a guy, but I don't mind playing dress up every now and again. I over exaggerate things and play it up.

Rock Climbing - Either a rock gym or boulder climbing. Freefall is fun!

Play dirty cops - Like cops and robbers, only you're both cops, and one of you's dirty. Try to arrest each other. Whoever gets arrested is the dirty one.

Biking - Go ride bikes. Look for new places, get lost. (Going for a drive is a good substitute, but it doesn't get the blood moving.)

Race - Just a straight out sprint. Running is fun, and it gets you tired. Which is also fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hero

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Hiking
throwing frisbee, softball, football.
geocaching, treasure hunt, ultimate frisbee,
rollerblading, skating, ice skating
visit museums
 

young_gun

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Laser tag is hella fun.
 

Mental

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Incremental said:
Specifically, I'm looking for things that get the blood moving, but as fingerpainting shows the fun factor is foremost. Here's what I have so far, I would like some more suggestions. Oh, and the lighter on the wallet the better. Think $10/wk allowance :whistle:
Incremental said:
Spar - I haven't had anyone to spar with in forever. It's hard to find a proper artist to spar with though.
Actually, balloon sword fights are really fun. Especially if they don't know you can make balloon sculptures. Yeah, it's a little childish maybe, but it's good clean fun, and you get a little excersize and play death scenes. And the kissing to reverse the cheesy balloon sword death is always fun.
 
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