"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As much complaining about OLD as there is on SS, there has to be more than 2 or 3 of us swiping right 24-7. :D
 

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I think I right swiped once today - possibly nothing will come of it, but the pics looked amazing. Have about three open matches I’m marinating.

More men on here posturing than anything else, like it matters…

I’m having fun, are you?
 

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My lord jeezus, what has the world turned into.... 35yo. This was her 3rd message. I was really just fuhking with her. Screenshot_20230724_230739_Bumble.jpg Screenshot_20230724_231452_Bumble.jpg
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This isn't really that egregious, more indicative of a common mindset on Tinder. In-your-face incongruity you really don't see anywhere else. Yes, let's show off out titties lying on the couch and say we're looking for long-term.

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It's covered by icons but directly above it says "looking for long-term partner+". The "+" meaning "and possibly marriage".
She looks like she trusted a fart and things didn’t go well. OMG
 

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She is attractive so plenty of men will be interested. She seems like a royal pain and constant drama.
Oh yeah. I don't use old so I don't know what ghe women on there look like typically but I'd say she's good. Very likely a nutcase tho. That's the pose she strikes after she's conquered the guy. Him underneath her heels, his life force draining out hahha oh man
 

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I don't use old so I don't know what ghe women on there look like typically but I'd say she's good. Very likely a nutcase tho. That's the pose she strikes after she's conquered the guy. Him underneath her heels, his life force draining out hahha oh man
Yes, her likely nutcase status is why she's using Bumble at age 35.

I agree with your sentences about her pose.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is same one that I posted before. Educated at degree level…like that matters these days. I’ve met lots of so called well educated people who were clueless.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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