Im in my final year of college, so far I have been getting good results As and Bs. But after chancing upon DJ stuffs, I feel like I have been neglecting my studies and if this happens my future career would be in jeopardy too! Please teach me how to stop thinking of this DJ stuffs.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
fun or studies
- Thread starter kelv
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
shutup bro.
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
ChalengeGuyFan
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No quite so.kelv said:
It's not the A's and B's who bring you a career, nor you'll get a career if you learn EVERYTHING in school.
What you can DO is important.
And you really want to give up the DJ stuff, which is stuff that can make a huge difference in EVERY aspect of your life?
I believe that you're looking for an excuse to give up...
No Girls 4 U
Don Juan
Reality check: your future will not be damaged if you do less-than-stellar in your last year in college. Most jobs after college don't even care WHAT you took or what grades you got - they're just happy u finished.
Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
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Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
Sign up for my FREE "No Girls 4 U" newsletter at: www.NoGirls4U.com
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.