Im in my final year of college, so far I have been getting good results As and Bs. But after chancing upon DJ stuffs, I feel like I have been neglecting my studies and if this happens my future career would be in jeopardy too! Please teach me how to stop thinking of this DJ stuffs.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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powpow
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shutup bro.
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
ChalengeGuyFan
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No quite so.kelv said:
It's not the A's and B's who bring you a career, nor you'll get a career if you learn EVERYTHING in school.
What you can DO is important.
And you really want to give up the DJ stuff, which is stuff that can make a huge difference in EVERY aspect of your life?
I believe that you're looking for an excuse to give up...
No Girls 4 U
Don Juan
Reality check: your future will not be damaged if you do less-than-stellar in your last year in college. Most jobs after college don't even care WHAT you took or what grades you got - they're just happy u finished.
Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
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Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
Sign up for my FREE "No Girls 4 U" newsletter at: www.NoGirls4U.com
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.