Im in my final year of college, so far I have been getting good results As and Bs. But after chancing upon DJ stuffs, I feel like I have been neglecting my studies and if this happens my future career would be in jeopardy too! Please teach me how to stop thinking of this DJ stuffs.
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- Thread starter kelv
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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powpow
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shutup bro.
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
sounds like a personal decision. the **** you post this for?
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No quite so.kelv said:
It's not the A's and B's who bring you a career, nor you'll get a career if you learn EVERYTHING in school.
What you can DO is important.
And you really want to give up the DJ stuff, which is stuff that can make a huge difference in EVERY aspect of your life?
I believe that you're looking for an excuse to give up...
No Girls 4 U
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Reality check: your future will not be damaged if you do less-than-stellar in your last year in college. Most jobs after college don't even care WHAT you took or what grades you got - they're just happy u finished.
Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
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Another reality check: you will feel HORRIBLE about yourself if you end up failing your last year in college as a result of chasing chicks. I actually failed out my first senior year of college because I was doing a bunch of DJ stuff and ended up getting my heart broken by a girl who, at the time, I was "so sure" I had in the bag.
Final reality check: if you're about to finish college, you're probably around the age of 22 or 23. In either case, there will ALWAYS be more girls to chase AFTER college. And they are usually higher quality, if only because they are less about the games and more about settling down long-term (if that's what you're looking for).
You only have 3 or 4 months left, so focus on your work and remember: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE GIRLS TO DJ ON IN THE FUTURE.
- Harry Wilmington
Sign up for my FREE "No Girls 4 U" newsletter at: www.NoGirls4U.com
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.