"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fun Nothing To Lose POF Message....Worked O.o

joverby

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So I sent a message a couple weeks or so ago to this one chick. Who's default picture is her standing infront of a mirror in panties, so not the most prestigious chick around.

But anyway, she sent a message back with not much to go off of so I just didn't reply.

Today I figured "fvck it." Sent her a message that said "Smash pelvis sometime?"

She replied back that she was game , lol. I just asked for her # and got it, so we'll see where this goes. But she looks like she's a pretty good lookin' chick. Obviously not lookin to wife her up, but should be fun maybe.

Moral of the story, don't be afraid to try some audacious stuff if you think you have nothing else to lose, it could work out in your favor.

:up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most chicks on pof are bottom of the barrel. So yes, being direct probably doesnt hurt.
 

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Right, I wasn't bragging that I got some top shelf chick or anything. She's pretty good looking, just low quality otherwise, I'm sure.

Funniest part I just noticed, the very first line on her POF....

"First off if your looking to get it in you can F u c king get out its disrespecful to even think i would do that with you if i dont know you at all."

Hahaha!
 

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Ha ha ha! I see alot of those "if you are just looking for sex..."profiles and the girl posts pictures with some provacative sexual poses. Its almost as funny as when after banging a chick you just met at a club and blowing your load all over her face, she tells you she normally doesnt have one night stands.

Its just crazy woman speak that really means Im a slut, and I know it but I have to say stupid things on my profile because I dont want the whole world to think Im a slut.
 

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OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zarky is correct. You have to strike when the iron is hot before some other dude sparks her interest.
 

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Zarky said:
OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
Right on, man.

I already had her send some sexy pics. :up:
 
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