"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fun Nothing To Lose POF Message....Worked O.o

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So I sent a message a couple weeks or so ago to this one chick. Who's default picture is her standing infront of a mirror in panties, so not the most prestigious chick around.

But anyway, she sent a message back with not much to go off of so I just didn't reply.

Today I figured "fvck it." Sent her a message that said "Smash pelvis sometime?"

She replied back that she was game , lol. I just asked for her # and got it, so we'll see where this goes. But she looks like she's a pretty good lookin' chick. Obviously not lookin to wife her up, but should be fun maybe.

Moral of the story, don't be afraid to try some audacious stuff if you think you have nothing else to lose, it could work out in your favor.

:up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most chicks on pof are bottom of the barrel. So yes, being direct probably doesnt hurt.
 

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Right, I wasn't bragging that I got some top shelf chick or anything. She's pretty good looking, just low quality otherwise, I'm sure.

Funniest part I just noticed, the very first line on her POF....

"First off if your looking to get it in you can F u c king get out its disrespecful to even think i would do that with you if i dont know you at all."

Hahaha!
 

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Ha ha ha! I see alot of those "if you are just looking for sex..."profiles and the girl posts pictures with some provacative sexual poses. Its almost as funny as when after banging a chick you just met at a club and blowing your load all over her face, she tells you she normally doesnt have one night stands.

Its just crazy woman speak that really means Im a slut, and I know it but I have to say stupid things on my profile because I dont want the whole world to think Im a slut.
 

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OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zarky is correct. You have to strike when the iron is hot before some other dude sparks her interest.
 

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Zarky said:
OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
Right on, man.

I already had her send some sexy pics. :up:
 
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