"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fun Nothing To Lose POF Message....Worked O.o

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So I sent a message a couple weeks or so ago to this one chick. Who's default picture is her standing infront of a mirror in panties, so not the most prestigious chick around.

But anyway, she sent a message back with not much to go off of so I just didn't reply.

Today I figured "fvck it." Sent her a message that said "Smash pelvis sometime?"

She replied back that she was game , lol. I just asked for her # and got it, so we'll see where this goes. But she looks like she's a pretty good lookin' chick. Obviously not lookin to wife her up, but should be fun maybe.

Moral of the story, don't be afraid to try some audacious stuff if you think you have nothing else to lose, it could work out in your favor.

:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Most chicks on pof are bottom of the barrel. So yes, being direct probably doesnt hurt.
 

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Right, I wasn't bragging that I got some top shelf chick or anything. She's pretty good looking, just low quality otherwise, I'm sure.

Funniest part I just noticed, the very first line on her POF....

"First off if your looking to get it in you can F u c king get out its disrespecful to even think i would do that with you if i dont know you at all."

Hahaha!
 

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Ha ha ha! I see alot of those "if you are just looking for sex..."profiles and the girl posts pictures with some provacative sexual poses. Its almost as funny as when after banging a chick you just met at a club and blowing your load all over her face, she tells you she normally doesnt have one night stands.

Its just crazy woman speak that really means Im a slut, and I know it but I have to say stupid things on my profile because I dont want the whole world to think Im a slut.
 

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OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky is correct. You have to strike when the iron is hot before some other dude sparks her interest.
 

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Zarky said:
OP don't get lazy, just because she may seem like she's down with it now doesn't mean she will continue to be so, if you let up. You need to keep pushing and keep being sexual. There is no cruise control.
Right on, man.

I already had her send some sexy pics. :up:
 
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