Fun ideas for lockdown date idea

[isasda66]

Well obviously for plates it was always going over or inviting them over.

But that gets plates breaking faster. They start seeking commitment faster.

I used to mix it up by making them walk while we get some cheap takeout or icecream. Sometime I'd let them watch me play video games. I noticed that this keeps them spinning for longer.

But in lockdown not much is open. Mostly everything is takeaway and Im not comfortable going to bars yet.

A fwb got a board game for us to play. I picked up a few board games to keep for when I call them over. Surprisingly fun depending on the game. Any other ideas? Or do you guys just fvck.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

I'm a bit of a photographer so we've made hundreds of tasteful and not so tasteful nudes and lots of home videos.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Personally I'm not gonna risk the $1200 fine for social gathering, I'll wait.

 

[Stoic]

Personally I'm not gonna risk the $1200 fine for social gathering, I'll wait.

Jesus man, do you live in North Korea? You are living in tyranny.

There's no way in hell I would follow a government order that didnt allow me to visit people.

If you are not a senior citizen with a serious health issue, you're odds of dying are less than one tenth of 1%.

Your choice how you want to live your life though.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Nothing different.

I do what I do daily, consistently.

They are free to hang out and watch, help, take initiative.

I play the guitar daily.

I workout at the gym.

I cook my meals.

I code on my workstation.

I read a book.

I go rock climbing.

These are the only things I'm willing to do on a consistent basis as it takes up my entire day.

I don't do separate "fun activities" for plates.

Either be a part of my progress or gtfo.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Invite them over to cook dinner with you.
Drive in movies if you have them near you.
Go for a hike/walk in a town with a cool little business district

 

[RickTheToad]

This whole year I’ve just been inviting girls over and then have them watch me and my friends gamble thousands of dollars on football. Sometimes I ask them to cook for us. But the focus is always on my friends and gambling. And the girls actually love being around all that testosterone, yelling, and screaming.

In fact now my friends are starting to invite their dates over. It’s become the go to place for tinder dates, lol. Ive pretty much turned my place into a sports bar/poker and gambling house.

Usually it’s a bunch of women hanging by themselves somewhere in the kitchen looking at their Instagram accounts while the guys are getting drunk and yelling at the television.

Thats pretty much how me and my friends date. A test of compliance is when I ask her to get me a beer. She better do it with enthusiasm.

Wouldn't it be more productive to have sex with them then to watch a football game?

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Wouldn't it be more productive to have sex with them then to watch a football game?

Good sex is the byproduct of a having a good time. Sometimes you're having so much fun that sex feels like a chore or distraction from the moment, it doesn't matter if she's a dime.

 

[RickTheToad]

that’s the stupidest question anyone has ever asked me on this forum. I’m not even going to answer it, lmao. It’s like a question a 15 year old virgin would ask. Either that or You’re being a smart@ss and not adding any value to the thread. Pathetic behavior for a mod.

Sex is not everything kid. Some of us have hobbies, friends, social circles, a life, etc. Adults don’t fret over sex. They just do it when the lights are off. Something mommy and daddy should have told you.

Gotcha chief. You keep your game strong; yelling at the screen and watching football while the ladies are in Insta in the other room. Makes perfect sense; to some people I guess.

 

[RickTheToad]

Good sex is the byproduct of a having a good time. Sometimes you're having so much fun that sex feels like a chore or distraction from the moment, it doesn't matter if she's a dime.

Different strokes for different folks I guess.

 

[RickTheToad]

Lol, game? I don’t need game. Why would I need to game my girl who is already in the kitchen making me a sandwich? You sound like an overcompensating weirdo.

I don’t know about your social circles. But in my social circles, just about every guy is married, has a gf, or multiple plates. Sex is like brushing our teeth. We are all in our 30s. We don’t talk about sex. We just do it. Like normal adults.

And you are criticizing me for watching football? Lmao. Hundreds of millions of men in America watch football every weekend and gamble. Vegas gambling is a multi billion dollar industry.

So I guess hundreds of millions of men in America have weak game just because we watch football while our girlfriends are cooking in the kitchen talking about gossip? Lmao.

Okay chief. Gotcha.

Cool. You do your thing big guy. A++

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Go to a sex position site where they are numbered, then go to a random.numbr generator online and put the min/max values in and generate 5 or 6 numbers.

Then look up the positions and those will be what you work on over the next few hours.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This whole year I’ve just been inviting girls over and then have them watch me and my friends gamble thousands of dollars on football. Sometimes I ask them to cook for us. But the focus is always on my friends and gambling. And the girls actually love being around all that testosterone, yelling, and screaming.

In fact now my friends are starting to invite their dates over. It’s become the go to place for tinder dates, lol. Ive pretty much turned my place into a sports bar/poker and gambling house.

Usually it’s a bunch of women hanging by themselves somewhere in the kitchen looking at their Instagram accounts while the guys are getting drunk and yelling at the television.

Thats pretty much how me and my friends date. A test of compliance is when I ask her to get me a beer. She better do it with enthusiasm.

I knew guys who used to do this growing up...then depending on the outcome of the game had to duck and dodge their landlords for several weeks.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Different strokes for different folks I guess.

Think about it, if your goal is sex then that means you have to consciously focus on it and go off your path significantly just to get some.

The less you can deviate from what you find enjoyable without a woman, the easier the entire process becomes. Like storm is saying, it becomes second nature because he's made it easy and doesn't have to deviate at all.

I agree and would argue it's infinitely more productive to foster the atmosphere for sex to happen naturally, rather than pursue sex directly at all expense. Glassguy does it, storm does it, I do it, it's the hallmark of a keen player imo.

Women want to want to fuuck you, long before they actually do fuuck you, because they know that makes for great sex.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

With my method it helps if you have a cool place and cool friends who respect you. The woman sees that I have a great social life. I’m respected by my friends. It’s automatic social proof and credibility, social dominance, etc. That’s actually the game. Bring a woman into your world and let her see how all your friends admire you.

Obviously this flew over someone’s head, lol.

I swear social proof is the most valuable thing to women. It's the ultimate hamster spinner, panty dropper, competition anxiety inducer. Like you say, social dominance.

I've had plenty of times where I'm at a girl's parent's place or at a party with mostly her friends and just having a fun time with the new people I'm meeting, laughing. She'll walk up in the midst of it all and whisper how badly she wants to suuck me off right then and there. Or she'll try to pull me away to actually do it.

Even a single picture on the gram smiling with friends is enough to have several exes reach out. The key is for it to be real and outward focused, and not some hollow subversive plea for validation.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Jesus man, do you live in North Korea? You are living in tyranny.

There's no way in hell I would follow a government order that didnt allow me to visit people.

If you are not a senior citizen with a serious health issue, you're odds of dying are less than one tenth of 1%.

Your choice how you want to live your life though.

Well our hospitals are completely full, we have literally 0 ICU beds and they are seriously talking about setting up field hospitals.

Its not just the covid, it's covid complications, you get into a car accident, you are not going to the hospital, it's full, so where are you going?

 

[Krueg]

For me, I like Hiking, Camping, fishing, hunting, target shooting...

Skiing, snowboarding, basketball, dog parks... lots of things to do outside, which is most women's weak spot. Remember ACTION dates! If they really like you they will go outside their comfort zone

 

[RickTheToad]

Think about it, if your goal is sex then that means you have to consciously focus on it and go off your path significantly just to get some.

The less you can deviate from what you find enjoyable without a woman, the easier the entire process becomes. Like storm is saying, it becomes second nature because he's made it easy and doesn't have to deviate at all.

I agree and would argue it's infinitely more productive to foster the atmosphere for sex to happen naturally, rather than pursue sex directly at all expense. Glassguy does it, storm does it, I do it, it's the hallmark of a keen player imo.

Women want to want to fuuck you, long before they actually do fuuck you, because they know that makes for great sex.

Perhaps. If I am in the mood for sex, when I was dating, I'd just invite them over and let things happen naturally. If I was in the mood to f uck around, I wouldn't have a bunch of other people around. However, that is me. There is no wrong way of doing it; as long as your goals for that evening and with her. My way, your way, Stormy Daniels' way.. It's all good as long as the original objective is achieved.

 

[bat soup]

How about calling the date "lockdown with kockdown"

 

[jimwho]

Thats pretty much how me and my friends date. A test of compliance is when I ask her to get me a beer. She better do it with enthusiasm.

BBwahahaaha, THIS...