Well, my school's Spring Break has started, and pretty much, I got nowhere to go, so I'm trapped up in this house for almost a whole week. My question is though, how can I have fun during spring break and where can I go to sarge over Spring Break if I'm stuck in town? I'd like to hear your opinions on this. It's going to get boring as hell staying in the house for a week.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Fun during Spring Break?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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ohhh my godddd.HandyAndy said:(depends on what state your in)
Well excuuuuse me......what do you suggest he does?Michele said:ohhh my godddd.
PRMoon
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Find the nearest spring break town and drive with friends. You have to live close to some where cool.
Get out and go! Spring break is one of the best times to cut loose when you're your age!
Get out and go! Spring break is one of the best times to cut loose when you're your age!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm 55 and i still cut loose during spring break.PRMoon said:Find the nearest spring break town and drive with friends. You have to live close to some where cool.
Get out and go! Spring break is one of the best times to cut loose when you're your age!
ezily
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?? :crackup:PRMoon said:drive with friends.
ezily said:?? :crackup:
Lmao, thats cold, but funny.
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lol i'm in Nebraska, the middle of nowhere.
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Its funny now cause spring break crowds are like 90% male, and frustration tends to run quite high.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah, you know everything about though you don't even know me, go you. And you diss me, but then you're still posting on this site. I can just as easily say you're a loser who lives with his mother, am I right? Who knows, I don't know sh*t about you.Mad Manic said:I doubt he has cool friends to go out macking on chicks with and driving in cars with. If he did, he probably wouldn't be on this site ... likewise.
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splinterkb
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How about you go wherever else you go when its not spring break.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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