"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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fuking covers at bars

blackbelt2k

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WHY o WHY am I forced to pay a cover for a damn bar?! Its not a club, its a bar...where have all the normal bars gone, the free entrance, drink all you want ones????????? WHERE I ASK YOU?? I'm in nyc btw, so i really wouuld like some places.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pimp-sicle

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blackbelt2k said:
WHY o WHY am I forced to pay a cover for a damn bar?! Its not a club, its a bar...where have all the normal bars gone, the free entrance, drink all you want ones????????? WHERE I ASK YOU?? I'm in nyc btw, so i really wouuld like some places.

Get there before 10pm and you won't have that problem





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wjh

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Because you're paying a premium to get in. It's a business.

Sometimes bars have a DJ that requires a percentage of the door - or a partnership arrangement. If the DJ or promoters are heavy, they'll want a bigger cut - hence the additional cost.

Covers also help keep the sausage ratio down. By forcing guys to pay more, their cost of entry goes up compared to women. It's actually better for you. A high sausage ratio typically makes women highly defensive and incapable of relaxing and being picked up on. The more women there, the more relaxed they are, and the better your chances for getting laid are.
 

speakeasy

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To tell you the truth, you'd be best going to a club that only lets ladies in free. If more guys have to pay, you're more likely to have a 50/50 ratio. I hear guys in line getting pissed because girls get to walk right up to the front and get in. But wtf do these dudes want??? Don't they want to go a club where more girls are getting in?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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st_99

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I agree blackbelt, charging a cover at a bar is just plain old tacky.

That happened to a bar near my house, a nice trick I like to use is just tell
the guy at the door..

"ah, man, I just have cards on me" They usually just say, "don't worry about it" and then I walk in.
 

Abbott

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I've never been to NYC, so I can't give you any suggestions on places. But I will tell you to look around. Surely there's got to be some. It's a big place with a lot of people.

I live around STL and I can tell you that some places have them while others don't. I'll even tell you that the places that have them aren't always better, or that's my experience anyway.

Are you willing to travel half-an-hour or 45 minutes? If you are then there should be a lot of options. In STL anyway, I've discovered that you always have to drive quite a ways, but then again I live in a sleepy bedroom community.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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