"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fuking covers at bars

blackbelt2k

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WHY o WHY am I forced to pay a cover for a damn bar?! Its not a club, its a bar...where have all the normal bars gone, the free entrance, drink all you want ones????????? WHERE I ASK YOU?? I'm in nyc btw, so i really wouuld like some places.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pimp-sicle

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blackbelt2k said:
WHY o WHY am I forced to pay a cover for a damn bar?! Its not a club, its a bar...where have all the normal bars gone, the free entrance, drink all you want ones????????? WHERE I ASK YOU?? I'm in nyc btw, so i really wouuld like some places.

Get there before 10pm and you won't have that problem





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wjh

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Because you're paying a premium to get in. It's a business.

Sometimes bars have a DJ that requires a percentage of the door - or a partnership arrangement. If the DJ or promoters are heavy, they'll want a bigger cut - hence the additional cost.

Covers also help keep the sausage ratio down. By forcing guys to pay more, their cost of entry goes up compared to women. It's actually better for you. A high sausage ratio typically makes women highly defensive and incapable of relaxing and being picked up on. The more women there, the more relaxed they are, and the better your chances for getting laid are.
 

speakeasy

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To tell you the truth, you'd be best going to a club that only lets ladies in free. If more guys have to pay, you're more likely to have a 50/50 ratio. I hear guys in line getting pissed because girls get to walk right up to the front and get in. But wtf do these dudes want??? Don't they want to go a club where more girls are getting in?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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st_99

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I agree blackbelt, charging a cover at a bar is just plain old tacky.

That happened to a bar near my house, a nice trick I like to use is just tell
the guy at the door..

"ah, man, I just have cards on me" They usually just say, "don't worry about it" and then I walk in.
 

Abbott

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I've never been to NYC, so I can't give you any suggestions on places. But I will tell you to look around. Surely there's got to be some. It's a big place with a lot of people.

I live around STL and I can tell you that some places have them while others don't. I'll even tell you that the places that have them aren't always better, or that's my experience anyway.

Are you willing to travel half-an-hour or 45 minutes? If you are then there should be a lot of options. In STL anyway, I've discovered that you always have to drive quite a ways, but then again I live in a sleepy bedroom community.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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